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<blockquote data-quote="Martie" data-source="post: 62568" data-attributes="member: 284"><p>I was going to second Wendy's suggest to run, rather than walk, away while you can.</p><p></p><p>If you perceive your son to be at-rsik, the double, triples,quadruples??? his risk.</p><p></p><p>How is SO's other child? You mention demanding jobs and live in nannies, so if money is not a problem, the ONLY way I would consider sticking around is if older child is OK (for now, as someone pointed out, adolescence is worse) and SO is willing to place the younger one residentially (for a long term treatment, not a short psychiatric hospital stay), I would be very scared if I were you.</p><p></p><p>You've gotten out of a very difficult marriage intact, but you are asking for more no matter how much you love this guy, and I'm sure you do. </p><p></p><p>Please don't think I am being harsh or judgmental; it is just that parenting one's own difficult child is so hard on marriages and relationships, that taking on this situation seems unrealistic.</p><p></p><p>As a practical matter, have you considered renting rather than selling, your house?</p><p></p><p>Martie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Martie, post: 62568, member: 284"] I was going to second Wendy's suggest to run, rather than walk, away while you can. If you perceive your son to be at-rsik, the double, triples,quadruples??? his risk. How is SO's other child? You mention demanding jobs and live in nannies, so if money is not a problem, the ONLY way I would consider sticking around is if older child is OK (for now, as someone pointed out, adolescence is worse) and SO is willing to place the younger one residentially (for a long term treatment, not a short psychiatric hospital stay), I would be very scared if I were you. You've gotten out of a very difficult marriage intact, but you are asking for more no matter how much you love this guy, and I'm sure you do. Please don't think I am being harsh or judgmental; it is just that parenting one's own difficult child is so hard on marriages and relationships, that taking on this situation seems unrealistic. As a practical matter, have you considered renting rather than selling, your house? Martie [/QUOTE]
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