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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 165914" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Welcome! Iam glad you found us, but sorry you need us. Especially with a new baby on the way! (congrats on the new little one coming soon!)</p><p> </p><p>I completely and totally wholeheartedly agree that ODD is a symptom of another problem. AND that if the underlying issue is treated the ODD disappears or is greatly lessened. been there done that with my own difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>if the chiildren are not in school, and are not given medical care, that is abusive and neglectful. CALL CPS!!! It is important that this child have structure, consistency and treatment. Her brother may also need it.</p><p> </p><p>I recommend The Explosive Child by Ross Greene. I also recommend the Love and Logic books and website (<a href="http://www.loveandlogic.com" target="_blank">www.loveandlogic.com</a> ). The L&L book, Parenting with Love and Logic, is what FINALLY got my own husband to see that HE needed to provide discipline. It also showed him how to discipline, rather than waiting until he couldn't tolerate the behavior and yelling, among other ineffective parenting methods. With L&L we got on the same page, which is CRUCIAL. So it is a fave of mine.</p><p> </p><p>I hope to see answers to the questions posed above, and will support you however I can.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 165914, member: 1233"] Welcome! Iam glad you found us, but sorry you need us. Especially with a new baby on the way! (congrats on the new little one coming soon!) I completely and totally wholeheartedly agree that ODD is a symptom of another problem. AND that if the underlying issue is treated the ODD disappears or is greatly lessened. been there done that with my own difficult child. if the chiildren are not in school, and are not given medical care, that is abusive and neglectful. CALL CPS!!! It is important that this child have structure, consistency and treatment. Her brother may also need it. I recommend The Explosive Child by Ross Greene. I also recommend the Love and Logic books and website ([URL="http://www.loveandlogic.com"]www.loveandlogic.com[/URL] ). The L&L book, Parenting with Love and Logic, is what FINALLY got my own husband to see that HE needed to provide discipline. It also showed him how to discipline, rather than waiting until he couldn't tolerate the behavior and yelling, among other ineffective parenting methods. With L&L we got on the same page, which is CRUCIAL. So it is a fave of mine. I hope to see answers to the questions posed above, and will support you however I can. Hugs! [/QUOTE]
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