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<blockquote data-quote="loosinghope2008" data-source="post: 143034" data-attributes="member: 4997"><p>Thank you again for all your worderful responses. I can't express how much I appreciate it. </p><p> </p><p>Thanks for the good idea to point my hubby to this site. I think he could really benefit from it. Its already helping me. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>Today my head is killing me. I was up til 3 in the morning with my mind racing. I had to cancel my plans to go away this weekend for a conference. Just called the town manager and had to explain. How embarassing! And it also cost the town money they already put up. But I felt there was no way I could leave my child when she seems to be in the throws of crisis.</p><p> </p><p>I also had a personal incident of concern. When I was talkin' to my daughter, several times during the discusion I got majorly light headed. I thought I was gonna pass out. I think the stress is just getting to me. </p><p> </p><p>I'm also struggling with battling off that feeling of depression. I am conscience that its a possibility, so I'm trying to talk more with my friends and this site is helping. </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Its definately an area of concern. He is not handling all this well. He has resigned himself to not really talkin' to her much at all, which isn't good. And when they do talk, it ends up being a blow up. I feel I must always be the mediator. Its hard cause while I see my husbands side, I realize he is outright wrong in his actions and is only adding to the problems. My daughter is incredibly disrespectful to him. I must be "on" at all times and it becomes very exhausting. I try to talk to my hubby about how he's handling things but he doesn't seem to really get it. He thinks she does this all on purpose and that she just needs to stop it. UGH!</p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Well I know that, but since I do work closely with the police in a professional realm, its a little embarassing. This is a very small town and the gossip mill will run rampant if I have to keep involving the police. Its a struggle in my head to do what is necessary and what will cause me the least amount of embarassment.</p><p> </p><p>by the way - I just want to add one thing. When I was reading my daughters myspace page, under the category of who are your Heros, she listed Jesus and my mom. I was shocked to read that. She must on some level understand that I love her and am trying to help her, even though she doesn't show it. It gave me a little bit of encouragement to read that.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks again for all your replies, much appreciated. I hope I'm not being a pest yet. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="loosinghope2008, post: 143034, member: 4997"] Thank you again for all your worderful responses. I can't express how much I appreciate it. Thanks for the good idea to point my hubby to this site. I think he could really benefit from it. Its already helping me. :) Today my head is killing me. I was up til 3 in the morning with my mind racing. I had to cancel my plans to go away this weekend for a conference. Just called the town manager and had to explain. How embarassing! And it also cost the town money they already put up. But I felt there was no way I could leave my child when she seems to be in the throws of crisis. I also had a personal incident of concern. When I was talkin' to my daughter, several times during the discusion I got majorly light headed. I thought I was gonna pass out. I think the stress is just getting to me. I'm also struggling with battling off that feeling of depression. I am conscience that its a possibility, so I'm trying to talk more with my friends and this site is helping. Its definately an area of concern. He is not handling all this well. He has resigned himself to not really talkin' to her much at all, which isn't good. And when they do talk, it ends up being a blow up. I feel I must always be the mediator. Its hard cause while I see my husbands side, I realize he is outright wrong in his actions and is only adding to the problems. My daughter is incredibly disrespectful to him. I must be "on" at all times and it becomes very exhausting. I try to talk to my hubby about how he's handling things but he doesn't seem to really get it. He thinks she does this all on purpose and that she just needs to stop it. UGH! Well I know that, but since I do work closely with the police in a professional realm, its a little embarassing. This is a very small town and the gossip mill will run rampant if I have to keep involving the police. Its a struggle in my head to do what is necessary and what will cause me the least amount of embarassment. by the way - I just want to add one thing. When I was reading my daughters myspace page, under the category of who are your Heros, she listed Jesus and my mom. I was shocked to read that. She must on some level understand that I love her and am trying to help her, even though she doesn't show it. It gave me a little bit of encouragement to read that. Thanks again for all your replies, much appreciated. I hope I'm not being a pest yet. ;) [/QUOTE]
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