Pixistix19
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Hello everyone! I am not sure if this is directed towards the right group or not but I figured I would give it a shot....* My son is 3 years old (born in March 08). He is a very smart, sweet little boy. He has done everything on the early side such as walking, talking and so on. He has incredible motor skills and a great memory. He literally remembers events in detail from the age of 1. Since he was 1, I started seeing little things here and there that were concerening to me and unfortunately, it has been getting worse and worse. He does not like any loud noises. vacuums, hair dryer, loud vehicles, sneezing, specific songs and kids playing. He ESPECIALLY hates to hear other kids playing and screaming. We drove to the beach 4 hrs away with a 1 and a half yr old boy and my son wouldnt stop screaming and crying until i somehow reached back from the drivers seat and covered his ears and eyes. It had to be this way for 2 hrs. He does not want to play with any children because he is too afraid. I take him out 3 times a week to try and get him around other children but it is a struggle because he will not let me put him down when there are kids around. He has an obsession with bringing his things everywhere we go. Not just toys but, random things he has found. Receipts, cords, pieces of paper, etc. If I tell him he has to choose a few items and leave the rest behind, he will throw a fit until he passes out. He could have a bag full of 20 things and still realize that 1 piece of paper is missing and he will not let it go. He has a fear that his things are getting "cold" in the middle of the night, so he wakes up in a panic. When he takes his things outside, they MUST be in a bag because otherwise the bugs will get them. He finds something wrong with 1 of his things and says that it is ruined, even though I cant physically see anything wrong with it, He gets so frustrated over these things and he cannot be reasoned with. When ever his dad leaves to go to work, or I leave to go to a doctors appointment, he says that we are never coming back and he never wants to see us again. And when I do come back, he will push me and tell me to go away. He is also very attached to my hair. He has to be holding onto my hair to fall asleep. I am really trying everything I can to help him and make him less scared and anxious but, I don't know what to do anymore. i talked to my pediatrician and she gave me a name of a therapist to see but, they don't take insurance so I am looking around right now. I have a 3 month old daughter and my son does not understand that he cant just pull her out of my arms when hes having an anxiety issue. He is 45 lbs so it is not that easy to contain him either.Thank you so much if you read the whole thing. I know it's long but, I think the more information the better. Any advice or support is appreciated