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<blockquote data-quote="missy44" data-source="post: 206895" data-attributes="member: 6201"><p>Thanks everyone, I guess I just needed some support and to hear "you did the right thing". I haven't talked to my son, but left a message on facebook for him telling him that we love him but he cannot live here anymore. that was over a week ago. His hockey coach called tonight wanting to talk to him and calling him up to play so I called one of my son's good friend and asked him to pass the message along (I trust his friend). My son has been in contact with his friend, they are planning on getting an apartment together in December. Right now my son is living with some friends that I don't really know. I asked he is good friend if my son might possibly be into something over his head (such as more than just pot) and he assured me that he did not believe so and that he would tell me if he thought that was the case. He also told me that my son went into his work and asked for full time work and they are going to give it to him. I hate to hope, and it's not the road I want him to take, but maybe this will make him grow up and realize that you have to work for what you get in life. I look back at the last few realize I have spoiled him so much and he never appreciated anything (I never taught him to). He's never done laundry, I was still making him lunches and of course of a home cooked meal everynight and a drive to his hockey (quite a way from home) a few times a week and many other things. </p><p>There have been more issues than what I mentioned such as porn on our computer (crashed a few times) and renting it and charging our cable bill which my husband and I made him pay back (not once, but twice)!</p><p>I read some of these stories and I get scared. I just pray it's not as bad as it can be.</p><p>I don't know what we'll do if he comes home cold and scared in the middle of the night (we took his key and have an alarm code that we set). I know I appear strong in my actions, but my heart is weak and I haven't thought too much about what I'll do. Does anyone have any suggestions?</p><p>I had a dream about him last night . I do worry, I do love him and miss the good times that we have. I"m just so tired of the roller coaster ride adn I really want him to be a contributing member of society someday. I really don't think that he will be if he continued the path he was heading in our home.</p><p>I doubt we'll hear from him for awhile. I packed his things this weekend and put them away until he makes arrangements to come and get them. I really just needed to do it so that I wouldn't be expecting him to come home.</p><p>Please keep talking to me, I truly appreciate it.</p><p>Best...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="missy44, post: 206895, member: 6201"] Thanks everyone, I guess I just needed some support and to hear "you did the right thing". I haven't talked to my son, but left a message on facebook for him telling him that we love him but he cannot live here anymore. that was over a week ago. His hockey coach called tonight wanting to talk to him and calling him up to play so I called one of my son's good friend and asked him to pass the message along (I trust his friend). My son has been in contact with his friend, they are planning on getting an apartment together in December. Right now my son is living with some friends that I don't really know. I asked he is good friend if my son might possibly be into something over his head (such as more than just pot) and he assured me that he did not believe so and that he would tell me if he thought that was the case. He also told me that my son went into his work and asked for full time work and they are going to give it to him. I hate to hope, and it's not the road I want him to take, but maybe this will make him grow up and realize that you have to work for what you get in life. I look back at the last few realize I have spoiled him so much and he never appreciated anything (I never taught him to). He's never done laundry, I was still making him lunches and of course of a home cooked meal everynight and a drive to his hockey (quite a way from home) a few times a week and many other things. There have been more issues than what I mentioned such as porn on our computer (crashed a few times) and renting it and charging our cable bill which my husband and I made him pay back (not once, but twice)! I read some of these stories and I get scared. I just pray it's not as bad as it can be. I don't know what we'll do if he comes home cold and scared in the middle of the night (we took his key and have an alarm code that we set). I know I appear strong in my actions, but my heart is weak and I haven't thought too much about what I'll do. Does anyone have any suggestions? I had a dream about him last night . I do worry, I do love him and miss the good times that we have. I"m just so tired of the roller coaster ride adn I really want him to be a contributing member of society someday. I really don't think that he will be if he continued the path he was heading in our home. I doubt we'll hear from him for awhile. I packed his things this weekend and put them away until he makes arrangements to come and get them. I really just needed to do it so that I wouldn't be expecting him to come home. Please keep talking to me, I truly appreciate it. Best... [/QUOTE]
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