Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
New Here, could use direction...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 406698" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>How far under 18 was the porn? How bad was it? Was it 'sexting' pics of girls he knows? Or was it really nasty stuff he had downloaded?</p><p></p><p>Something that might work for you - videotape him. It is worth the expense and shouldn't cost too much, to set up a hidden camera. I was pricing these out for a neighbour whose house regularly gets vandalised by neighbourhood kids. For a couple of hundred dollars (Aussie dollars) he could get a thumbnail-sized wide angle lens camera including remote transmission to another storage device (also small, could be hidden in a book on the shelf) which can ten be downloaded about every 36 hours or so, if you want to keep everything. Or you just let it run and it will over-write the last 36 hours, so you have 36 hours to get to the files you want, save the bits you want and let the rest keep recording and over-writing. The amount of time is directly related to the size of the storage device (not physical size, but capacity). If you want to spend a few more hundred, you can have multiple channel recording with multiple cameras.</p><p></p><p>If you have clear evidence, then he can't just sit there and pretend you're all nuts. It's "answer the question, or we'll assume the worst."</p><p></p><p>Have you made appointments ABOUT him, and discussed your problems with him, just between you and a therapist? Before the therapist gets to see him? The tdocs may be right, if he is being so uncooperative there might not be much they can do. But you could ask them for advice - "If I am telling you the truth and it is not me who is the problem, what do you think we would need to do in order to help you help him?" </p><p></p><p>Welcome to the site. Sorry you need us, but help is here.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 406698, member: 1991"] How far under 18 was the porn? How bad was it? Was it 'sexting' pics of girls he knows? Or was it really nasty stuff he had downloaded? Something that might work for you - videotape him. It is worth the expense and shouldn't cost too much, to set up a hidden camera. I was pricing these out for a neighbour whose house regularly gets vandalised by neighbourhood kids. For a couple of hundred dollars (Aussie dollars) he could get a thumbnail-sized wide angle lens camera including remote transmission to another storage device (also small, could be hidden in a book on the shelf) which can ten be downloaded about every 36 hours or so, if you want to keep everything. Or you just let it run and it will over-write the last 36 hours, so you have 36 hours to get to the files you want, save the bits you want and let the rest keep recording and over-writing. The amount of time is directly related to the size of the storage device (not physical size, but capacity). If you want to spend a few more hundred, you can have multiple channel recording with multiple cameras. If you have clear evidence, then he can't just sit there and pretend you're all nuts. It's "answer the question, or we'll assume the worst." Have you made appointments ABOUT him, and discussed your problems with him, just between you and a therapist? Before the therapist gets to see him? The tdocs may be right, if he is being so uncooperative there might not be much they can do. But you could ask them for advice - "If I am telling you the truth and it is not me who is the problem, what do you think we would need to do in order to help you help him?" Welcome to the site. Sorry you need us, but help is here. Marg [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
New Here, could use direction...
Top