She has been defiant since she was young. She's getting worse. The doctors kept telling me it's from anxiety, I'm not so sure anymore. She's going to be 13 and she's getting hard to even be around. Everything I tell her to do, ask her kindly to do, she tells me no. This goes for bedtime, homeschooling, everything. I don't know how to handle it. We have given her punishments, taken things away, and she doesn't care it's like we are walking around on eggshells just so we won't **** Emilee off. Ready to pull my hair out. She gets mad really easy. One minute she's laughing, and you tell her something, and all of a sudden she's in her room throwing things around. She also attacks her sister all the time. She hits her. Sometimes Mae bugs her, but sometimes she doesn't. She can just be not doing anything, and Emilee will go and hit her.