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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 52897" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Welcome! I certainly understand people suggesting you need to be harder on your child and discipline more. I heard that alot from Dex. Until she lived with him, that is. I am sure there is a sense of I should or could have done things differently - I am easy to put the blame on. But, I have big shoulders and can take it. It really does not bother me anymore. You have to let these things go as you have bigger things to worry about. </p><p></p><p>Sounds like your child has always been emotionally delayed and the abuse just sent him further back in emotions. My difficult child says her dad is mean, too. But, he does not abuse her. Children tend to compare mom and dad and expect them to be the same. Mom may be considered nice and dad mean because of a tone of voice. So, you really can not be sure about other abuse. Also, Dex and his wife always have said difficult child was fine at their house, too. She actually was. Because she could hold it together at their house for a couple days as she would be able to let it all come out when she got back to my house. She was completely different at both houses. Oh and if your difficult child is 'fine' at Dex's house - why did they have to beat him? Sounds like they may be exagerating just how well behaved he is there. </p><p></p><p>Since your difficult child has more behavioral problems at school. I would for sure consider a problem with the lighting there. Flourescent lighting can make some people spiral out of control. You mentioned sensory integration disorder (Sensory Integration Disorder (SID)) but why do you think that if you can not find sensory things? Do you think he just gets to frustrated with kids?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 52897, member: 391"] Welcome! I certainly understand people suggesting you need to be harder on your child and discipline more. I heard that alot from Dex. Until she lived with him, that is. I am sure there is a sense of I should or could have done things differently - I am easy to put the blame on. But, I have big shoulders and can take it. It really does not bother me anymore. You have to let these things go as you have bigger things to worry about. Sounds like your child has always been emotionally delayed and the abuse just sent him further back in emotions. My difficult child says her dad is mean, too. But, he does not abuse her. Children tend to compare mom and dad and expect them to be the same. Mom may be considered nice and dad mean because of a tone of voice. So, you really can not be sure about other abuse. Also, Dex and his wife always have said difficult child was fine at their house, too. She actually was. Because she could hold it together at their house for a couple days as she would be able to let it all come out when she got back to my house. She was completely different at both houses. Oh and if your difficult child is 'fine' at Dex's house - why did they have to beat him? Sounds like they may be exagerating just how well behaved he is there. Since your difficult child has more behavioral problems at school. I would for sure consider a problem with the lighting there. Flourescent lighting can make some people spiral out of control. You mentioned sensory integration disorder (Sensory Integration Disorder (SID)) but why do you think that if you can not find sensory things? Do you think he just gets to frustrated with kids? [/QUOTE]
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