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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 676968" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>Thank you for your advice and support, kind words. Yes, very strong, been through a lot in my life and had to grow up fast. I have done tough love with him at one time for 6 months; I cut contact from him. Years later he told me thanks Mom for doing that, made me grow up. That was like 7 years ago. He loves helping homeless people, believes he has to dress like them to get to know them and bring them to the Lord. But then, he meets these women who have drug issues, and he falls for them and they use him for his money. The latest one just threatened him with putting in jail all the time when he couldn't get more money. She put a PPO on him because he couldn't give her more money- because I refused to give him money for whatever the scam of the day was on that day. He is intelligent enough to know right from wrong, regardless of his lower IQ. He is smart, street wise and knows how to find help, food, etc. He can't get section 8 housing due to being caught up in a pot raid back when he was like 22. He had lived in slum housing places, breaks my heart. He has slept on porches, under bridges, etc. </p><p></p><p>After reading here, came to the conclusion, to help him, I have to step aside and force him to get a third party to handle his finances. He won't be able to scam them nor will anyone else be able to scam and threaten him. </p><p></p><p>He does have a good heart at times, can be loving, and so loves the Lord, but has fallen away from his Bible. I am very thankful for this forum and have posted advice and support on a few posts here. I will stick around to learn from others and help when I can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 676968, member: 19951"] Thank you for your advice and support, kind words. Yes, very strong, been through a lot in my life and had to grow up fast. I have done tough love with him at one time for 6 months; I cut contact from him. Years later he told me thanks Mom for doing that, made me grow up. That was like 7 years ago. He loves helping homeless people, believes he has to dress like them to get to know them and bring them to the Lord. But then, he meets these women who have drug issues, and he falls for them and they use him for his money. The latest one just threatened him with putting in jail all the time when he couldn't get more money. She put a PPO on him because he couldn't give her more money- because I refused to give him money for whatever the scam of the day was on that day. He is intelligent enough to know right from wrong, regardless of his lower IQ. He is smart, street wise and knows how to find help, food, etc. He can't get section 8 housing due to being caught up in a pot raid back when he was like 22. He had lived in slum housing places, breaks my heart. He has slept on porches, under bridges, etc. After reading here, came to the conclusion, to help him, I have to step aside and force him to get a third party to handle his finances. He won't be able to scam them nor will anyone else be able to scam and threaten him. He does have a good heart at times, can be loving, and so loves the Lord, but has fallen away from his Bible. I am very thankful for this forum and have posted advice and support on a few posts here. I will stick around to learn from others and help when I can. [/QUOTE]
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