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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 339807" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>Douglas Riley has come out with a new book - what your explosive child is telling you which in my humble opinion vindicates the approach of Dr Greene . Different approaches have different underlying philosophies and interpretation of why children behave in this way. And of course each child is different , the problem could be one of motivation or lacking coping to function adaptively</p><p></p><p>Dr Greene believes children do well if they can , they would rather be successful and do well rather than not do well , so the reason why they are acting in such a maladaptive fashion is that they are lacking the skills to pull it off. </p><p></p><p>if the problem is motivation then you can just try and make them want it ! However the relaity is that kids don't like to be controlled and manipulated and will resist even more . By stepping back and give up control we actually can influence because of the improved relationship and trust.</p><p></p><p>CPS demands that parents deal with the issues by actual problem solving. It takes the learning of these skills by both parents and kids.</p><p></p><p>see <a href="http://thinkkids.org" target="_blank">http://thinkkids.org</a> and <a href="http://livesinthebalance.org" target="_blank">http://livesinthebalance.org</a> especially the videos </p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 339807, member: 10"] Hi, Douglas Riley has come out with a new book - what your explosive child is telling you which in my humble opinion vindicates the approach of Dr Greene . Different approaches have different underlying philosophies and interpretation of why children behave in this way. And of course each child is different , the problem could be one of motivation or lacking coping to function adaptively Dr Greene believes children do well if they can , they would rather be successful and do well rather than not do well , so the reason why they are acting in such a maladaptive fashion is that they are lacking the skills to pull it off. if the problem is motivation then you can just try and make them want it ! However the relaity is that kids don't like to be controlled and manipulated and will resist even more . By stepping back and give up control we actually can influence because of the improved relationship and trust. CPS demands that parents deal with the issues by actual problem solving. It takes the learning of these skills by both parents and kids. see [url]http://thinkkids.org[/url] and [url]http://livesinthebalance.org[/url] especially the videos Allan [/QUOTE]
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