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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 116233" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>Jeeze, what a mess she has caused. I know its really upsetting when they start making bonehead choices as a full grown adult, and even worse, you end up getting sucked into the drama, along with family members, and friends and now you have to live with battle lines drawn...uggggg</p><p></p><p>Thankfully my mother lives far away, and is kept relatively clueless about my eldest - I tell her very little, but she still gets on me about, well...can't you just ...talk to her, tell her, order her, plead with her.. And I always respond, no I can't and I won't - its her life, she is free to make a big mess of it and I am free not to participate in any absurdities or stupidity because if I did, I will be sucked into her drama and I am definately not going there anymore. been there done that and have more than my share of the been there done that Tshirts.</p><p></p><p>Is it a mental health issue - who knows - its easier to think it might be and therefore there is a good explaination for the crazieness. It may be just a simple case that life was getting too predictable and boring and she needed a change, and made one, much to her detriment and that of her husband. </p><p></p><p>Nevertheless, you never stop loving them or worrying about them when they do something rash that is so life altering. </p><p></p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 116233, member: 47"] Jeeze, what a mess she has caused. I know its really upsetting when they start making bonehead choices as a full grown adult, and even worse, you end up getting sucked into the drama, along with family members, and friends and now you have to live with battle lines drawn...uggggg Thankfully my mother lives far away, and is kept relatively clueless about my eldest - I tell her very little, but she still gets on me about, well...can't you just ...talk to her, tell her, order her, plead with her.. And I always respond, no I can't and I won't - its her life, she is free to make a big mess of it and I am free not to participate in any absurdities or stupidity because if I did, I will be sucked into her drama and I am definately not going there anymore. been there done that and have more than my share of the been there done that Tshirts. Is it a mental health issue - who knows - its easier to think it might be and therefore there is a good explaination for the crazieness. It may be just a simple case that life was getting too predictable and boring and she needed a change, and made one, much to her detriment and that of her husband. Nevertheless, you never stop loving them or worrying about them when they do something rash that is so life altering. Marcie [/QUOTE]
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