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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 352928" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>Um, I have experienced these issues, including the father in denial who</p><p>won't assist with providing necessary information regarding difficult child. Father</p><p>also would not believe difficult child was abusing even his siblings. You need to </p><p>protect yourself from the father too. </p><p></p><p>Do you communicate or have good relationships with those living near your son?</p><p>Are you in full contact with DCFS? It is very VERY important to do so.</p><p>Is your custody (both legal and physical) arrangement updated with</p><p>addresses and the names of all parties living at both homes? Do you</p><p>know of his juvenile officer? Have you seen the paperwork on</p><p>the molestation from DCFS? Do you have all of his school files (including</p><p>disciplinary/Special Education/temporary and permanent).</p><p></p><p>By the way, in my area, I have rarely seen my state actually deal with</p><p>sexual abuse involving minors for any party involved. There is a program</p><p>known as the diversion program for adults, which is solely based upon an</p><p>individual evaluation of the "alleged" (since successful completion of the</p><p>program (usually 52 weeks) means dismissal or lessening of charges). </p><p></p><p>If there is a program, outside of the juvenile facility programs, you can bet</p><p>that he was evaluated for it too.</p><p></p><p>You have a legal right to be notified of his behavior.</p><p></p><p>Can you PM me the county your son lives in and which state you</p><p>reside in?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 352928, member: 8202"] Um, I have experienced these issues, including the father in denial who won't assist with providing necessary information regarding difficult child. Father also would not believe difficult child was abusing even his siblings. You need to protect yourself from the father too. Do you communicate or have good relationships with those living near your son? Are you in full contact with DCFS? It is very VERY important to do so. Is your custody (both legal and physical) arrangement updated with addresses and the names of all parties living at both homes? Do you know of his juvenile officer? Have you seen the paperwork on the molestation from DCFS? Do you have all of his school files (including disciplinary/Special Education/temporary and permanent). By the way, in my area, I have rarely seen my state actually deal with sexual abuse involving minors for any party involved. There is a program known as the diversion program for adults, which is solely based upon an individual evaluation of the "alleged" (since successful completion of the program (usually 52 weeks) means dismissal or lessening of charges). If there is a program, outside of the juvenile facility programs, you can bet that he was evaluated for it too. You have a legal right to be notified of his behavior. Can you PM me the county your son lives in and which state you reside in? [/QUOTE]
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