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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 595410" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I'm guessing that if he is selling, he's using. Have you checked his FaceBook, his room, his cell phone? by the way, do you pay for that for him because, since he refuses to work, I wouldn't give him money. </p><p></p><p>His lazy behavior is typical of a kid using drugs. Have you thought of drug testing him? Does he see his addict mother? If so, there you go...the perfect place where he can use drugs without any scolding. And if you got custody when he was fourteen, that means he lived with her for a long time before you took him away from her so he's well aware of what she does. Sadly, the genetic propensity to become involved with drugs does count. </p><p></p><p>But regardless he is twenty now and there is nothing you can do about what he does or doesn't do or if he sees his mother or not or if he runs off to NY or not, but I doubt you have to support him since you don't live in NY. Like others have said, I'd ask an attorney just to be sure. Then I'd cut off the cash to encourage him to get a job.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 595410, member: 1550"] Well, I'm guessing that if he is selling, he's using. Have you checked his FaceBook, his room, his cell phone? by the way, do you pay for that for him because, since he refuses to work, I wouldn't give him money. His lazy behavior is typical of a kid using drugs. Have you thought of drug testing him? Does he see his addict mother? If so, there you go...the perfect place where he can use drugs without any scolding. And if you got custody when he was fourteen, that means he lived with her for a long time before you took him away from her so he's well aware of what she does. Sadly, the genetic propensity to become involved with drugs does count. But regardless he is twenty now and there is nothing you can do about what he does or doesn't do or if he sees his mother or not or if he runs off to NY or not, but I doubt you have to support him since you don't live in NY. Like others have said, I'd ask an attorney just to be sure. Then I'd cut off the cash to encourage him to get a job. [/QUOTE]
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