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<blockquote data-quote="Yvette" data-source="post: 480493" data-attributes="member: 13219"><p>Thanks for your email!</p><p></p><p>We were separated for 4 years when I moved abroad. He came across with his grandparents, then came to live with me, then we moved to a different town abroad, away from his grandparents, new school etc.. the psychologist spent 4 sessions with him and also I had to have a meeting with her and fill out a questionnaire etc.</p><p></p><p>You're right, whatever method I think I am using now isn't working.. rewards aren't working as he doesn't want it enough to try.. he has nothing left for me to take away either and he is normally the one who will negotiate whether or not he is going to do as I ask... more often than not he will negotiate, I will accept and he still wont do it, then I check and I am moaning at him, when I check he hasn't done it, lied that he had, after negotiating that he would in the first place! This is but a speck of an example and not one of the crackers!! I will get that book though and start reading it to see if I can get some inspiration from there as well...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Yvette, post: 480493, member: 13219"] Thanks for your email! We were separated for 4 years when I moved abroad. He came across with his grandparents, then came to live with me, then we moved to a different town abroad, away from his grandparents, new school etc.. the psychologist spent 4 sessions with him and also I had to have a meeting with her and fill out a questionnaire etc. You're right, whatever method I think I am using now isn't working.. rewards aren't working as he doesn't want it enough to try.. he has nothing left for me to take away either and he is normally the one who will negotiate whether or not he is going to do as I ask... more often than not he will negotiate, I will accept and he still wont do it, then I check and I am moaning at him, when I check he hasn't done it, lied that he had, after negotiating that he would in the first place! This is but a speck of an example and not one of the crackers!! I will get that book though and start reading it to see if I can get some inspiration from there as well... [/QUOTE]
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