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<blockquote data-quote="ready2run" data-source="post: 572860" data-attributes="member: 11339"><p>So apparently CAS has decided that biomom is not a viable solution even if she is clean, medicated and doing well now. they could not elaborate but whatever it was is on record and makes her high risk...... they have offered us a potential temperary foster placement but apparently we only have five foster parents here and each has several kids already so they either have to shuffle kids or recruit another family who can take him.... i am pushing towards the inpatient treatment facility and long term placement. they don't seem to care that they gave me this kid with out warning me that he was damaged and that i have done all i can. they did talk to him though and he openly admitted what he did, wasn't remorseful, didn't acknowledge it was wrong, and said he'd do it again if given the chance. they said they don't think he understands. i think he understands enough to know better or he wouldn't have coaxed the other kids to keep it secret or been able to twist my virtues and values lessons to his purposes. i told them i don't want him, i am not going to treat him properly because i'm resentful and that he is better off going somewhere where he hasn't molested the people in charges kids. i am thinking i need to go over the cas's heads but i'm not sure who is over their heads...... psychiatrist appointment on the 22nd. hope they can help</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ready2run, post: 572860, member: 11339"] So apparently CAS has decided that biomom is not a viable solution even if she is clean, medicated and doing well now. they could not elaborate but whatever it was is on record and makes her high risk...... they have offered us a potential temperary foster placement but apparently we only have five foster parents here and each has several kids already so they either have to shuffle kids or recruit another family who can take him.... i am pushing towards the inpatient treatment facility and long term placement. they don't seem to care that they gave me this kid with out warning me that he was damaged and that i have done all i can. they did talk to him though and he openly admitted what he did, wasn't remorseful, didn't acknowledge it was wrong, and said he'd do it again if given the chance. they said they don't think he understands. i think he understands enough to know better or he wouldn't have coaxed the other kids to keep it secret or been able to twist my virtues and values lessons to his purposes. i told them i don't want him, i am not going to treat him properly because i'm resentful and that he is better off going somewhere where he hasn't molested the people in charges kids. i am thinking i need to go over the cas's heads but i'm not sure who is over their heads...... psychiatrist appointment on the 22nd. hope they can help [/QUOTE]
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