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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 573000" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Have you checked with a family lawyer? Maybe there is some obscure way you can get husband/difficult child out? (i know, but how do others who divorce do it? Someone has to agree and maybe that means a judge orders selling the home because divorce is filed?) I think Mattsmom has the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) info? </p><p></p><p>It is similar here. People are threatened all the time that they will lose their other kids when they refuse to keep a difficult child, or refuse to pick them up from a psychiatric hospital because they are dangerous etc. </p><p></p><p>One way people start to build a case for it though is to start creating a record. I personally think it is criminal that we woudl have to do this because the legal system is not really built for helping a mental illness and of course going to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is best, but because protective issues for your little ones is an issue.....maybe you need to file charges against him on behalf of your little ones?</p><p></p><p>Again, I'd check with a family law person. Then every time he injures a pet or hits you or whatever, you keep pressing charges. Some here have had to do that to get services. </p><p></p><p>I'm really sorry the systems are set up that way. It is just so not right. We have a very few "therapeutic" foster care homes....a few that are specifically for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)...but that is a few in the entire COUNTRY! It is a situation that is so wrong. A while ago there was a family here who had an internationally adopted daughter who had perped on neighbors and one neighbor actually moved. They too had to struggle and their daughter is now out of the home (as of their last posts)...just so wrong that we dont throw efforts into finding what will work best for them when young, even if it means just figuring out what makes them tick and finding out where they need to live for the rest of their lives....it is truly pay now or pay later for these kiddos.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 573000, member: 12886"] Have you checked with a family lawyer? Maybe there is some obscure way you can get husband/difficult child out? (i know, but how do others who divorce do it? Someone has to agree and maybe that means a judge orders selling the home because divorce is filed?) I think Mattsmom has the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) info? It is similar here. People are threatened all the time that they will lose their other kids when they refuse to keep a difficult child, or refuse to pick them up from a psychiatric hospital because they are dangerous etc. One way people start to build a case for it though is to start creating a record. I personally think it is criminal that we woudl have to do this because the legal system is not really built for helping a mental illness and of course going to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is best, but because protective issues for your little ones is an issue.....maybe you need to file charges against him on behalf of your little ones? Again, I'd check with a family law person. Then every time he injures a pet or hits you or whatever, you keep pressing charges. Some here have had to do that to get services. I'm really sorry the systems are set up that way. It is just so not right. We have a very few "therapeutic" foster care homes....a few that are specifically for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)...but that is a few in the entire COUNTRY! It is a situation that is so wrong. A while ago there was a family here who had an internationally adopted daughter who had perped on neighbors and one neighbor actually moved. They too had to struggle and their daughter is now out of the home (as of their last posts)...just so wrong that we dont throw efforts into finding what will work best for them when young, even if it means just figuring out what makes them tick and finding out where they need to live for the rest of their lives....it is truly pay now or pay later for these kiddos. [/QUOTE]
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