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<blockquote data-quote="luv my ottb" data-source="post: 117704" data-attributes="member: 4520"><p>OMG Nancy, Your story sounds so similar to mine. Tears are rolling down my face. </p><p></p><p>I know she struggles with so many things I can't fathom, in utero and possible mental illness inherited from bio mom. She's home from school due to an ice storm and so far today she's being really good. I plan on taking her to the Y so she can get some energy out and let her help cook dinner. </p><p></p><p>Total guilt about easy child-What kind of chaos did I set him up for?</p><p>difficult child is on medications, but again at 10 years old I know I don't have a complete diagnosis. New child psychiatrist tomorrow and I plan on having a new neuropsychologist workup also. I am hoping dr. will see something new out of all therapists notes and our input or at least get me pointed to good neuropsychologist. </p><p></p><p>We clearly have been thinking about a different living arrangement because of the flatout chaos which is involved with her. I am going to the library today to find Identical Strangers. Her anger is always directed at me, but all I want to do for her is help her. I have finally told her if she wants to be really angry about life and was she percieves as being abandoned, she should be angry at biomom and not me. Amazingly enough, I haven't heard biomom referred to since. </p><p>Our therapist now has been great, but I sense she is getting frustrated that difficult child continues to be physically aggressive when angered. We were supposed to meet tonight, but she canceled due to weather. So I guess we will find out next week what she has in store or whether she feel difficult child would be better off with someone else.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for your insight, we just sound so alike in our history.</p><p>Hugs back at you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="luv my ottb, post: 117704, member: 4520"] OMG Nancy, Your story sounds so similar to mine. Tears are rolling down my face. I know she struggles with so many things I can't fathom, in utero and possible mental illness inherited from bio mom. She's home from school due to an ice storm and so far today she's being really good. I plan on taking her to the Y so she can get some energy out and let her help cook dinner. Total guilt about easy child-What kind of chaos did I set him up for? difficult child is on medications, but again at 10 years old I know I don't have a complete diagnosis. New child psychiatrist tomorrow and I plan on having a new neuropsychologist workup also. I am hoping dr. will see something new out of all therapists notes and our input or at least get me pointed to good neuropsychologist. We clearly have been thinking about a different living arrangement because of the flatout chaos which is involved with her. I am going to the library today to find Identical Strangers. Her anger is always directed at me, but all I want to do for her is help her. I have finally told her if she wants to be really angry about life and was she percieves as being abandoned, she should be angry at biomom and not me. Amazingly enough, I haven't heard biomom referred to since. Our therapist now has been great, but I sense she is getting frustrated that difficult child continues to be physically aggressive when angered. We were supposed to meet tonight, but she canceled due to weather. So I guess we will find out next week what she has in store or whether she feel difficult child would be better off with someone else. Thanks for your insight, we just sound so alike in our history. Hugs back at you. [/QUOTE]
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