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<blockquote data-quote="Nandina" data-source="post: 761937" data-attributes="member: 23742"><p>Dear Kitty, thank you for updating us and I am so very sorry your son is hurting you this way.</p><p></p><p>Please tell me there is no possibility you are going to let your son in your home again. Of course you don’t want him to go to jail but at what cost to you? Your son ran at you with a 30 lb. box and smashed your head up against a wall!? He could have killed or permanently incapacitated you, Kitty. Please do not let him back in your home, which should be your sanctuary, not a place where terror reigns.</p><p></p><p>As others have suggested, please get some support from either a counselor or a group like NarAnon. After years of caring for your husband and accepting his abuse, it sounds like you‘ve lost some of your self-worth and that’s allowed your son to follow in his stepdad’s footsteps and repeat the same abuse. And you are taking it all over again. Why?</p><p></p><p>No one, I repeat NO ONE, should ever, ever live with that kind of abuse, period.</p><p></p><p>You are so worthy, Kitty. You have a big heart, as Copa said in another post above. Don’t let your son rob you of your self-worth and dignity. You deserve so much more.</p><p></p><p>Many hugs and keep posting. I am very concerned.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nandina, post: 761937, member: 23742"] Dear Kitty, thank you for updating us and I am so very sorry your son is hurting you this way. Please tell me there is no possibility you are going to let your son in your home again. Of course you don’t want him to go to jail but at what cost to you? Your son ran at you with a 30 lb. box and smashed your head up against a wall!? He could have killed or permanently incapacitated you, Kitty. Please do not let him back in your home, which should be your sanctuary, not a place where terror reigns. As others have suggested, please get some support from either a counselor or a group like NarAnon. After years of caring for your husband and accepting his abuse, it sounds like you‘ve lost some of your self-worth and that’s allowed your son to follow in his stepdad’s footsteps and repeat the same abuse. And you are taking it all over again. Why? No one, I repeat NO ONE, should ever, ever live with that kind of abuse, period. You are so worthy, Kitty. You have a big heart, as Copa said in another post above. Don’t let your son rob you of your self-worth and dignity. You deserve so much more. Many hugs and keep posting. I am very concerned. [/QUOTE]
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