BrettsMomgonenuts
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Hi im Chandra and im actually feeling relieved finding this site. My difficult child is 8 and bless him, he is driving me insane. The reason i did a search for a forum was i just got through cleaning up some spray paint he decided to plaster all over his sisters room. And at last count i have said the words "clean your room now" about 134 times today. :hammer: My son, my darling son... I love him I do, I love him with every inch of my soul, but right now I am at my wits end. (135 times now) When he was in Pre-school they would beg me to have him tested for ADHD and at the time i refused, i felt that 3 was too young. But once in Kindergarten, i knew it was time. He has had a multitude of tests done and I am satisfied with the ADHD diagnosis. (I mean they didnt just label him, they actually tested him and talked with him and talked with his teacher etc.) His psychologist said that at 5 he was an odd case. He was unbelievably smart, reading at a 4th grade level, his math was at a 3rd grade level and his IQ is extremely high for his age. He makes straight A's too. His teachers think that he is bored and have put him in higher level classes to try and challenge him more, but he cant sit still long enough for anything. Forgive me if i ramble, but its really helping typing all of this out.
We went through so many different medications in the beginning... oo so many, and some were awful. Ritalin(sp?) made him super depressed, and he is a skinny guy anyway, and he wouldnt eat and got so thin. The stratera works better than anything. its a non stimulant based medication that seems to be helping a lot. Everyone from his teachers to his dad says he is doing lots better.
Its just that he is so sneaky and clever. He found a loop hole in the homework system at school and ended up not doing homework for over a month before i caught on. (in a way i was impressed he figured it out, lol). I have to always be on my A game or he gets things past me, i honestly think the little guy is smarter than me sometimes. He still gets into things like a 2 year old. Worse than the 2 year old i have, just this morning he emptied and entire bottle of chocolate syrup into the floor, when asked why he did it, he just says "I dont know".
Anyway, we are in a transitional period, his usual psychologist moved, so i have to get another and go through brett getting used to them and feeling comfortable talking to them all over again.
Oooo and i am soo sick of my parents and inlaws saying "He is just doing it for attention, he is a boy, thats the way BOYS are" its not NORMAL for an 8 year old to get up at 3 am, get a can of green beans from the cabinet and open it with a hammer and a nail. thats not normal.
im finished rambling now, thanks for reading! i dont feel like throwing myself out in front of a truck now! lol
chandra
We went through so many different medications in the beginning... oo so many, and some were awful. Ritalin(sp?) made him super depressed, and he is a skinny guy anyway, and he wouldnt eat and got so thin. The stratera works better than anything. its a non stimulant based medication that seems to be helping a lot. Everyone from his teachers to his dad says he is doing lots better.
Its just that he is so sneaky and clever. He found a loop hole in the homework system at school and ended up not doing homework for over a month before i caught on. (in a way i was impressed he figured it out, lol). I have to always be on my A game or he gets things past me, i honestly think the little guy is smarter than me sometimes. He still gets into things like a 2 year old. Worse than the 2 year old i have, just this morning he emptied and entire bottle of chocolate syrup into the floor, when asked why he did it, he just says "I dont know".
Anyway, we are in a transitional period, his usual psychologist moved, so i have to get another and go through brett getting used to them and feeling comfortable talking to them all over again.
Oooo and i am soo sick of my parents and inlaws saying "He is just doing it for attention, he is a boy, thats the way BOYS are" its not NORMAL for an 8 year old to get up at 3 am, get a can of green beans from the cabinet and open it with a hammer and a nail. thats not normal.
im finished rambling now, thanks for reading! i dont feel like throwing myself out in front of a truck now! lol
chandra