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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 237497" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>veegiegymrat: Hye, welcome. I hope you are doing well under all those stresses. I grew up in a military family and the seperation and the unknown is tough to live with</p><p>for children and wives and mothers. </p><p> You are doing the one thing that I found worked for me when my son will little and challenging to stay one step ahead of and composed and not turn into a wailing yelling mommymonster...the weepy eyed nose running angersourous. I talked to other adults to "debrief" from my worrys ect so that when I did have my son with me my attention was focused on him and our time. having a plan and a daily routene help make it all easier for him. Also talking about things that are in store and ASKING HIM QUESTIONS so that you engage him in the dialogue and you can hear what is going on in his thinking process. </p><p>my quesss is you already know that.</p><p>It is a struggle to give all our time and attention to others. It is the nature of the </p><p>matron stage of a womans life. And as much as it does fly by so fast that it amazes,</p><p>it also can tic hard in the mean time.</p><p>When a child is not easy it also means that their are not so many oppertunities to </p><p>have play date time to really have some down time for yourself, and it is a hard hard schedule. I pray(and am afraid to ask) that he does sleep? You know if he does not this is the point where you will have to have help. A person..even female people..must get rest. Regular sleep. For hours at a time. It really maybe the next fronteir in marital vows and pre-neps the contract provisions guarenteeing both</p><p>essential rest AND beauty rest.</p><p></p><p>Anyway welcome and I hope you find much that you need here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 237497, member: 6271"] veegiegymrat: Hye, welcome. I hope you are doing well under all those stresses. I grew up in a military family and the seperation and the unknown is tough to live with for children and wives and mothers. You are doing the one thing that I found worked for me when my son will little and challenging to stay one step ahead of and composed and not turn into a wailing yelling mommymonster...the weepy eyed nose running angersourous. I talked to other adults to "debrief" from my worrys ect so that when I did have my son with me my attention was focused on him and our time. having a plan and a daily routene help make it all easier for him. Also talking about things that are in store and ASKING HIM QUESTIONS so that you engage him in the dialogue and you can hear what is going on in his thinking process. my quesss is you already know that. It is a struggle to give all our time and attention to others. It is the nature of the matron stage of a womans life. And as much as it does fly by so fast that it amazes, it also can tic hard in the mean time. When a child is not easy it also means that their are not so many oppertunities to have play date time to really have some down time for yourself, and it is a hard hard schedule. I pray(and am afraid to ask) that he does sleep? You know if he does not this is the point where you will have to have help. A person..even female people..must get rest. Regular sleep. For hours at a time. It really maybe the next fronteir in marital vows and pre-neps the contract provisions guarenteeing both essential rest AND beauty rest. Anyway welcome and I hope you find much that you need here. [/QUOTE]
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