The counselor has been put on administrative leave pending a full investigation. He is a district counselor, so it is being handled further up. They believe he used poor judgement and was only trying to get my son's attention to sit down. This is their best opinion without talking to the counselor. They did express to me that either way he was out of line. I guess I am supposed to wait and see what they come up with. I thank you for your advice and views. Sometimes we see things a little foggy. Also, my 6 mo old cousin made it through her 4th open heart surgery this morning. They were amazed at how much they were able to fix on her right heart branches. She doesn't have to have another surgery for 6 months now.