Hi everyone. I need a lot of help. I have 4 children aged 26, 22, 19 and 13. It's the 26 and 19 year olds that are the problem although the 22 year old and the 13 year old both have aspegers syndrome, they are both lovely kids. A brief outline of the 2 troublesome ones then I will start a thread for each of them. The 26 year old has recently told me that I have messed her up and has cut contact with me "until she is ready to talk". The 19 year old has always stolen from us, has been arrested for shop lifting while we were out shopping as a family when she was 15 and her brother was 8 and very upset. She has now bought a brand new car but has not made 2 payments on it. She has told us her bank was emptied of money by someone else and claims it was fraud, we know she is lying.