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New year day blowout
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 745144" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>in my opinion It works better if family is not tied financially to one another. People think they deserve free passes and can act irresponsibly when the Bank of Mom funds.</p><p></p><p> It is less stressful if a stranger takes over. Then they either follow the rules or have to work it out with strangers. At your daughters age she shouldnt be dependent on you and its such a headache.</p><p></p><p>The times I have helped my kids, such as when we gave our daughter a nice down payment on her house, it was a gift with no strings attached. She pays the mortage with her fiance and all the bills and whatever happens now is on them. I wouldnt want to be a landlord to an adult child, especially an irresponsible one.</p><p></p><p>Think of yourself. You matter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 745144, member: 1550"] in my opinion It works better if family is not tied financially to one another. People think they deserve free passes and can act irresponsibly when the Bank of Mom funds. It is less stressful if a stranger takes over. Then they either follow the rules or have to work it out with strangers. At your daughters age she shouldnt be dependent on you and its such a headache. The times I have helped my kids, such as when we gave our daughter a nice down payment on her house, it was a gift with no strings attached. She pays the mortage with her fiance and all the bills and whatever happens now is on them. I wouldnt want to be a landlord to an adult child, especially an irresponsible one. Think of yourself. You matter. [/QUOTE]
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