Thanks for making me feel welcome didn't really think anyone would reply back. well Im a stay at home mom of 3 and housewife. My kids are boy who is 6 a girl who will be 4 in sept, and a boy that is 19 months. my issue is mainly with my lil girl. Ive had problems since she was 18 months old. it first started with SEVERE nite terrors. Everything i've read on nite terrors it says the child normally wakes up 1 time a night well for my case it was up to 7 times a night every single night. we tried meletonin and benedryl and they both done reverse reaction on her. so her peds put her on clonodine it worked but wouldn't keep her asleep.I begged for a sleep study cat scan anything. they told me she was to young.
So in the mist of that I had my 3rd child in dec 09. Well let me back up. my oldest and her has never gotten along, shes always been very aggressive selfish demanding you name it. She kept sinusitis and ear infections she was on 12 antibotics 1 yr so i switched peds and he sent her to a ent bc she failed hearing test. well I thought trying to get her into preschool so she could play with other children not just siblings so they wanted to test her to see if she would qualify before the ent done her surgery, her ears where compacted and her adenoids where super enlarged. so we tested her at 30 months old and she tested that she was at a 18-20 month old level. delays in cognitive motor social etc. so she qualified. went to preschool last fall she had seperation anxiety for quiet sometime but adapted well only thing was she seperated herself from the other kids.she stuck right with the teachers.she would come home and tell me she didn't like so and so all the time. So bc of the anger the not following rules, no fear of anything, she doesnt sit down shes always on the go back talks, doesnt like authority i had to take it to the next level. I got her to a phsyciatrist. he tried her on adderall it done reverse reaction, tried folocine done nothing, tried buspar at night with the clonodine and it worked well with the night terrors it kept her asleep but done nothing during the day except made her eat double what she normally did she woke up thinking bout food thats all she talked about. so i told the dr what was goin on then to find out she gained 2 pounds in 4 weeks while on that medication. he uped the dosage to 1 in the am 1 in the pm.her eating picked back up and 3 days on 10mg she started talking bout killing things.NEVER heard that word come out til that medication so i took her off of it called the dr and he hasn't called me back but i see him this week. in the mean time he refered her to a phycologist she said theres alot going on but she needs the pshycological testing to find out what is goin on. back up a lil she had delay testing after the adenoids at 38 months after the surgery she tested and she was at a 22 month level.so theres still delays there. this past april we had her tonsils removed they was actually growin on her uvula i was thinking that was the cause of her still waking up she snorted all the time. it helped the snoring but not the nite terrors. The psyciatrist says shes a garden of wonder theres alot of different symptoms going on just hard to diagnose a 3 yr old. I've researched til i blue she matches some symptoms of bi polar, ODD, and sensory dysfunction disorder. she matches ODD to the tee. But i've got to do something. I've had to get on nerve pills and im bipolar my self but was controlling it without medications until now. I had to do somethin for myself for me to be able to tolerate her and help her. noone knows what i go through day in and day out. I have no help except from my hubby but he works. I don't get breaks it just makes it harder. A trip to the store or where ever is a night mare shes constantly starting fights with the other kids in the car anywhere she is. she don't walk she runs or skips, shes very clumsy, she wants undivided attention 24/7, she doesnt want to do anything herself she always needs help, shes destructive demanding, doesnt like authority, she shares nothing, her meltdowns are all the time its just never ending and when its bedtime youd think i could put my feet up and enjoy peace but that don't happen bc of night terrors.When my youngest was born she would wake him up screaming so I'd get her back to sleep have to go get him back to sleep and by the time he would go back to bed she was up again. That went on for so long I ran on a average of 2 hrs a sleep a night i was going nuts.Got to where i couldn;t remember anything i couldn't think i just couldn't function and help is like impossible.Im spending so much money on doctors appts and medications that don't work and can't get a answer. VERY frustrating.
So now that i've gave yall a lil taste of my issues maybe someone has some advice. but for now i have her hollering mommy mommy mommy and my lil boy waking up. have a good day everyone.