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<blockquote data-quote="gamijo" data-source="post: 381065"><p>thank you so much for responding! And thank you for asking the questions that I left out. </p><p></p><p>My daughter wasn't sexually bullied in school- it was teasing, hitting, kicking, pushing, and saying the meanest nastiest things they could say. They somehow knew what were her biggest weaknesses and played on it. Some of the things were saying about she's too tall, ugly, a freak...</p><p></p><p>She's had 2 psychiatric evaluations done- neither came back with great results. It's like I'm fighting a losing battle...</p><p></p><p>Her bio 'father' was insane. I was 19 when I met him and he told me he was 25. I knew he had one child but found out after I filed for support that he was actually 32, had about 8 other kids, and that I was calling him by his last name!!! He held my in his apartment by gunpoint and shot at me when I finally got away (because I did not want to be with him... don't know why! lol) He was obviously a habitual liar and had some issues that I don't know about. I have PTSD from him, I also have depression, anxiety, and Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD). I am adopted so I don't know my own family history. </p><p>Her development was fine as a young child, walked early, talked and everything else on time. I don't exactly remember eye contact, but it apparently wasn't something that caught my, or anyone else's attention as a problem. She is VERY quirky. She loves to act like animals and recently told me that she's told kids at school that she's part dog! She has this amazing ability to run like a tiger- hands and feet... lol</p><p></p><p>friends... she really believes that everyone she sees/ knows is her friend. She has let 'friends' be extremely mean to her, but refuses to stick up for herself for fear of hurting their feelings. she has one friend who has always been good to her, but pulled her hair one day last year. She does have sensory and auditory processing disorder. She hates personal hygiene! Getting her to take a shower, brush teeth, wash face, wear deodorant, etc is a huge battle everyday. She has breath issues from her gastric issues and getting her to use mouthwash on top of brushing is another battle. She says she doesn't mind being the 'smelly kid'. </p><p>She does have a 504 at school, but we're in middle school this year and none of the teachers seem to be following it. The guidance counselor is not very helpful though I've been trying to get a meeting together. Since her behaviors are mainly at home, behind closed doors it is so hard to get anyone to believe what goes on. She acts so hateful towards me and her brother that it really bothers me. I don't know how I could have made this little monster. I love her so much, but am just at a loss of what to do. My heart is broken...</p><p></p><p>I've brought up the idea of bi-polar to her psychs but it's pretty much just gone by the wayside. I know she has ADHD and I know ODD too, but there just has to be more going on. I feel bad yelling all the time, and I know it's not helpful at all, but when my son is in the line of danger all the time- what do I do??? It's so frustrating! </p><p> </p><p>oh, and how do I do a signature line?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gamijo, post: 381065"] thank you so much for responding! And thank you for asking the questions that I left out. My daughter wasn't sexually bullied in school- it was teasing, hitting, kicking, pushing, and saying the meanest nastiest things they could say. They somehow knew what were her biggest weaknesses and played on it. Some of the things were saying about she's too tall, ugly, a freak... She's had 2 psychiatric evaluations done- neither came back with great results. It's like I'm fighting a losing battle... Her bio 'father' was insane. I was 19 when I met him and he told me he was 25. I knew he had one child but found out after I filed for support that he was actually 32, had about 8 other kids, and that I was calling him by his last name!!! He held my in his apartment by gunpoint and shot at me when I finally got away (because I did not want to be with him... don't know why! lol) He was obviously a habitual liar and had some issues that I don't know about. I have PTSD from him, I also have depression, anxiety, and Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD). I am adopted so I don't know my own family history. Her development was fine as a young child, walked early, talked and everything else on time. I don't exactly remember eye contact, but it apparently wasn't something that caught my, or anyone else's attention as a problem. She is VERY quirky. She loves to act like animals and recently told me that she's told kids at school that she's part dog! She has this amazing ability to run like a tiger- hands and feet... lol friends... she really believes that everyone she sees/ knows is her friend. She has let 'friends' be extremely mean to her, but refuses to stick up for herself for fear of hurting their feelings. she has one friend who has always been good to her, but pulled her hair one day last year. She does have sensory and auditory processing disorder. She hates personal hygiene! Getting her to take a shower, brush teeth, wash face, wear deodorant, etc is a huge battle everyday. She has breath issues from her gastric issues and getting her to use mouthwash on top of brushing is another battle. She says she doesn't mind being the 'smelly kid'. She does have a 504 at school, but we're in middle school this year and none of the teachers seem to be following it. The guidance counselor is not very helpful though I've been trying to get a meeting together. Since her behaviors are mainly at home, behind closed doors it is so hard to get anyone to believe what goes on. She acts so hateful towards me and her brother that it really bothers me. I don't know how I could have made this little monster. I love her so much, but am just at a loss of what to do. My heart is broken... I've brought up the idea of bi-polar to her psychs but it's pretty much just gone by the wayside. I know she has ADHD and I know ODD too, but there just has to be more going on. I feel bad yelling all the time, and I know it's not helpful at all, but when my son is in the line of danger all the time- what do I do??? It's so frustrating! oh, and how do I do a signature line? [/QUOTE]
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