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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 122953" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>Okay, my two cents.....if she still avoids telling you where she is staying at night it means she thinks you would not approve, BUT she is showing concern for your feelings and she is not lying about it. These are two good indicators in my mind, that she still values your relationship. Sometimes being apart and not having to deal with the day-to-day irritations can greatly help a relationship. She was at least smart enough to see this and remove herself. Asking a child to leave your home is much more devastating in my mind. So my advice would be: Don't ask questions you think you already know the answer to, step back and see what she can do, it may surprise you. If she is staying out of trouble with the law and not asking you to bail her out give her space to learn a few life lessons...... Just keep things light and keep telling her you love her.....If she doesn't feel you are lecturing her she will try talking with you.</p><p>As I said these are only my opinions and I don't know all that has gone on before in your relationship, but you can only control yourself, don't try to control the relationship.......best of luck to you and your family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 122953, member: 53"] Okay, my two cents.....if she still avoids telling you where she is staying at night it means she thinks you would not approve, BUT she is showing concern for your feelings and she is not lying about it. These are two good indicators in my mind, that she still values your relationship. Sometimes being apart and not having to deal with the day-to-day irritations can greatly help a relationship. She was at least smart enough to see this and remove herself. Asking a child to leave your home is much more devastating in my mind. So my advice would be: Don't ask questions you think you already know the answer to, step back and see what she can do, it may surprise you. If she is staying out of trouble with the law and not asking you to bail her out give her space to learn a few life lessons...... Just keep things light and keep telling her you love her.....If she doesn't feel you are lecturing her she will try talking with you. As I said these are only my opinions and I don't know all that has gone on before in your relationship, but you can only control yourself, don't try to control the relationship.......best of luck to you and your family. [/QUOTE]
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