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<blockquote data-quote="IMSnoopee" data-source="post: 56761" data-attributes="member: 3740"><p>Oh my gosh... I'm sorry, but you're enabling your son. As guilty as you may feel for him not having his father around, having to go through life with disabilities, etc. -- you gotta know that it's not all your fault. </p><p></p><p>And you know what? I bet ya he's pissed! I'd be pissed. I'd be really pissed knowing my dad walked out and I've been dealt a cruddy hand. But that doesn't excuse his anger toward you or anyone. </p><p></p><p>My oldest son's father hasn't even tried to meet his son. The two younger boy's dad is an blankety blank blank. Clueless! And I feel guilty -- used to feel a lot more guilty, but now? What can I do? I know I instill good morals, self respect, manners, and good work ethic. But the days of mom killing herself over things she had no control over are gone. And I suggest you do the same. </p><p></p><p>And there's no forcing your son into counseling, etc. if he doesn't want it. I do suggest you get your own counseling to make you stronger in your decision to tell your son he's old enough and capable to support his own car habit, etc. </p><p></p><p></p><p>:wink:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="IMSnoopee, post: 56761, member: 3740"] Oh my gosh... I'm sorry, but you're enabling your son. As guilty as you may feel for him not having his father around, having to go through life with disabilities, etc. -- you gotta know that it's not all your fault. And you know what? I bet ya he's pissed! I'd be pissed. I'd be really pissed knowing my dad walked out and I've been dealt a cruddy hand. But that doesn't excuse his anger toward you or anyone. My oldest son's father hasn't even tried to meet his son. The two younger boy's dad is an blankety blank blank. Clueless! And I feel guilty -- used to feel a lot more guilty, but now? What can I do? I know I instill good morals, self respect, manners, and good work ethic. But the days of mom killing herself over things she had no control over are gone. And I suggest you do the same. And there's no forcing your son into counseling, etc. if he doesn't want it. I do suggest you get your own counseling to make you stronger in your decision to tell your son he's old enough and capable to support his own car habit, etc. [img]:wink:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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