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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 703141" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>If your signature is still up to date, she is 17. In my state that is a minor. She could not travel without your consent, if that is the case.</p><p></p><p>I would worry about sexual exploitation by this man, at minimum. You do not mention his age, but still....</p><p></p><p>Her age makes a difference. If she is still a minor and you are responsible, I would put a halt to all of it.</p><p></p><p>It is to her credit that she finished the nurse's aid training and has been open to working. And she seems big-hearted and open to taking responsibility--as evidenced by her relationship with the chaotic family with so many kids!</p><p></p><p>But what kind of judgement is she showing by allowing herself to be exploited by this crew? Bitten by bugs?</p><p></p><p>It all hinges on how much control you have either legally or by asserting your parental authority. In the case of my own son, I have as much authority as <em>his own needs and wants allow me</em> to have. Which means, he uses me if he needs to, and cedes only when he is desperate.</p><p></p><p>Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 703141, member: 18958"] If your signature is still up to date, she is 17. In my state that is a minor. She could not travel without your consent, if that is the case. I would worry about sexual exploitation by this man, at minimum. You do not mention his age, but still.... Her age makes a difference. If she is still a minor and you are responsible, I would put a halt to all of it. It is to her credit that she finished the nurse's aid training and has been open to working. And she seems big-hearted and open to taking responsibility--as evidenced by her relationship with the chaotic family with so many kids! But what kind of judgement is she showing by allowing herself to be exploited by this crew? Bitten by bugs? It all hinges on how much control you have either legally or by asserting your parental authority. In the case of my own son, I have as much authority as [I]his own needs and wants allow me[/I] to have. Which means, he uses me if he needs to, and cedes only when he is desperate. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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