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Newlywed son and his wife having problems, want me to help
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 687315" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>As I was reading about this about her brother in the hospital I was having flashbacks to when my sister was having her first baby. My ex and I were at the hospital in Boulder, we lived in Denver - a 45 minute drive. I wanted to be there for the birth of my niece. I wanted to be there with my mom and dad and other sister. My ex came to me and said "I'm bored we're leaving" I told him no, this was my family and I wanted to stay. He said "fine, suit yourself" and he left me there. I was hurt, embarrassed and mad. My brother in laws brother was kind enough to give me ride home after my niece was born. That was the beginning of the end for me. </p><p></p><p>My advice is to not get involved. If it were me, I would tell them both that they made an adult decision to get married now they need to act like adults and deal with the consequences of their choice. </p><p>I will be honest and I don't mean to sound harsh but I do not see this young couple making it and that would probably be for the best. </p><p></p><p>I appreciate the hope you have that your son may be able to turn it around like your husband did but that cannot be predicted. Also, were you and your husband living on your own or were you living with your parents? Was your husband working? I'm sure the scenarios are very different.</p><p></p><p>I hope you will be able to have some peace in your home very soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 687315, member: 18516"] As I was reading about this about her brother in the hospital I was having flashbacks to when my sister was having her first baby. My ex and I were at the hospital in Boulder, we lived in Denver - a 45 minute drive. I wanted to be there for the birth of my niece. I wanted to be there with my mom and dad and other sister. My ex came to me and said "I'm bored we're leaving" I told him no, this was my family and I wanted to stay. He said "fine, suit yourself" and he left me there. I was hurt, embarrassed and mad. My brother in laws brother was kind enough to give me ride home after my niece was born. That was the beginning of the end for me. My advice is to not get involved. If it were me, I would tell them both that they made an adult decision to get married now they need to act like adults and deal with the consequences of their choice. I will be honest and I don't mean to sound harsh but I do not see this young couple making it and that would probably be for the best. I appreciate the hope you have that your son may be able to turn it around like your husband did but that cannot be predicted. Also, were you and your husband living on your own or were you living with your parents? Was your husband working? I'm sure the scenarios are very different. I hope you will be able to have some peace in your home very soon. [/QUOTE]
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