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No help from Daycare - been kicked out of 3 in 2 yrs!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 471770" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think the best thing you can do for your daughter is to take her to Public School's Early Intervention Program. She can be tested and if she qualifies, she will be in a helpful environment that understands "differently wired" kids and also get a lot of help. For whatever reason (you have not had her evaluated yet),she is not able to maintain away from home and I agree that she will have a hard time in regular school next year if the issues are not addressed now. Behavioral therapists usually don't work with our kids...our kids don't respond to "normal" parenting methods. Perhaps your daughter can not control her fears away from home, but that is a good reason to evaluate her and to see if she has any childhood disorder. My guess is she does. I like neuropsychologist testing the best...along with the school testing so that you can get help.</p><p>You can certainly wait on medication. My experience is that medications help certain kids and make certain kids even worse. I think the most important thing is an evaluation so that she can get interventions for whatever the problem is. Do you have any history on her birthparents? Was she exposed to drugs or alcohol before she was born? We adopted a boy whose birthmother was a drug addict and he has his own unique issues. Any psychiatric problems in the birthparent's family tree? It is important to try to find out. That can help a lot...genetics has a lot to do with how we behave and why we are what we are.</p><p>I have adopted several kids.</p><p>I work at a day care center and it is state law that the kids at least have to lay on a mat for a certain amount of time, depending on age. All of our kids will do it, more or less. Some sneak off their mats to talk to one another. Some may hum or ask, "Is it almost time to get up?" None of them rage about it...this is a red flag that something is different about your precious little girl. The "lay down" rule is not negotiable as far as I know and there are many rules she will have to follow that she won't like when she gets into kindergarten...</p><p>I'll wait to see your answers and welcome to the board <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 471770, member: 1550"] I think the best thing you can do for your daughter is to take her to Public School's Early Intervention Program. She can be tested and if she qualifies, she will be in a helpful environment that understands "differently wired" kids and also get a lot of help. For whatever reason (you have not had her evaluated yet),she is not able to maintain away from home and I agree that she will have a hard time in regular school next year if the issues are not addressed now. Behavioral therapists usually don't work with our kids...our kids don't respond to "normal" parenting methods. Perhaps your daughter can not control her fears away from home, but that is a good reason to evaluate her and to see if she has any childhood disorder. My guess is she does. I like neuropsychologist testing the best...along with the school testing so that you can get help. You can certainly wait on medication. My experience is that medications help certain kids and make certain kids even worse. I think the most important thing is an evaluation so that she can get interventions for whatever the problem is. Do you have any history on her birthparents? Was she exposed to drugs or alcohol before she was born? We adopted a boy whose birthmother was a drug addict and he has his own unique issues. Any psychiatric problems in the birthparent's family tree? It is important to try to find out. That can help a lot...genetics has a lot to do with how we behave and why we are what we are. I have adopted several kids. I work at a day care center and it is state law that the kids at least have to lay on a mat for a certain amount of time, depending on age. All of our kids will do it, more or less. Some sneak off their mats to talk to one another. Some may hum or ask, "Is it almost time to get up?" None of them rage about it...this is a red flag that something is different about your precious little girl. The "lay down" rule is not negotiable as far as I know and there are many rules she will have to follow that she won't like when she gets into kindergarten... I'll wait to see your answers and welcome to the board :) [/QUOTE]
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