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<blockquote data-quote="AlParedes" data-source="post: 379194"><p>It seems nothing I do seems to work. Grounding her is usually what leads to her trying to run away and taking away her prized possession her Ipod results in the police being called every single time. When punished in any way she becomes hostile and begins screaming in my face what a horrible mother I am and so thats why she has to be disrespectful. I usually give up when she goes to her room slamming the doors and tearing down closet doors and cursing me. I have no control over her because their is nothing she cares about. I was told she has Aspergers and I believe it, but there is much more than that I think. She has been disrespectful since she was three and I would get calls from pre-school about her defiance no matter the punishment. A teacher once told me it seem like she became possessed by the devil when required to do anything and she is the same way to this day. If i asked her to wash her dishes she will after a few hours of continuous asking, she usually will distract herself and pretend like she dosent hear me. When i get fed up and stand there insisting she does them she slams them and breaks at least one. We need more cups. I have been told im soft. I try not to raise my voice until I cannot take it anymore and she has never had a spanking. I always tried to talk to her and then restrict or ground but she will not learn and does not care to hear anything I say unless it is about a band. I have read CD and ODD and feel like she fall somewhere in between these characterstics on a daily basis. She is un-capable of the telling the truth. I watched her lie to the police about where she was when she ran away at first saying she stayed at her friend house...a boy. when they asked which school she goes to she said he wasnt in school which then of course they wanted his name. She made it up i could tell and couldnt remember which apartment he lived in...(hello you were there three dates) "toward the front" she said, when he pressed she said actually he goes to a different school...hes 16 she lied.</p><p></p><p> Last night around midnight she knocked im my door and asked me if I had signed a paper for school. I told her I read it but was not taking the schools vision insurance, I hadn't had the time to tell her she was already signed up. when she replies " well F&*6k YOOOOOOOOOOU then, I heard crashing her room as she threw around stuff. She told me the latter over and over again screaming at the top of her lungs like some sort of crazy crack-head. All my wife said was "I think she may be on drugs". I got out of bed after sleeping for two hours to confront her behavior. She refused to open the door no matter what. After 5 minutes of her screaming FU on the other side and that I dont care anything about her for not getting this school insurance ( like WHAT?) I helplessly went back to bed. Not an issue for he Cops. She went off to school this morning and when I woke up around nine and I took her door off. She has yet to return home from school...DUM DUM DUMMMMM. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /> This could get uglier.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AlParedes, post: 379194"] It seems nothing I do seems to work. Grounding her is usually what leads to her trying to run away and taking away her prized possession her Ipod results in the police being called every single time. When punished in any way she becomes hostile and begins screaming in my face what a horrible mother I am and so thats why she has to be disrespectful. I usually give up when she goes to her room slamming the doors and tearing down closet doors and cursing me. I have no control over her because their is nothing she cares about. I was told she has Aspergers and I believe it, but there is much more than that I think. She has been disrespectful since she was three and I would get calls from pre-school about her defiance no matter the punishment. A teacher once told me it seem like she became possessed by the devil when required to do anything and she is the same way to this day. If i asked her to wash her dishes she will after a few hours of continuous asking, she usually will distract herself and pretend like she dosent hear me. When i get fed up and stand there insisting she does them she slams them and breaks at least one. We need more cups. I have been told im soft. I try not to raise my voice until I cannot take it anymore and she has never had a spanking. I always tried to talk to her and then restrict or ground but she will not learn and does not care to hear anything I say unless it is about a band. I have read CD and ODD and feel like she fall somewhere in between these characterstics on a daily basis. She is un-capable of the telling the truth. I watched her lie to the police about where she was when she ran away at first saying she stayed at her friend house...a boy. when they asked which school she goes to she said he wasnt in school which then of course they wanted his name. She made it up i could tell and couldnt remember which apartment he lived in...(hello you were there three dates) "toward the front" she said, when he pressed she said actually he goes to a different school...hes 16 she lied. Last night around midnight she knocked im my door and asked me if I had signed a paper for school. I told her I read it but was not taking the schools vision insurance, I hadn't had the time to tell her she was already signed up. when she replies " well F&*6k YOOOOOOOOOOU then, I heard crashing her room as she threw around stuff. She told me the latter over and over again screaming at the top of her lungs like some sort of crazy crack-head. All my wife said was "I think she may be on drugs". I got out of bed after sleeping for two hours to confront her behavior. She refused to open the door no matter what. After 5 minutes of her screaming FU on the other side and that I dont care anything about her for not getting this school insurance ( like WHAT?) I helplessly went back to bed. Not an issue for he Cops. She went off to school this morning and when I woke up around nine and I took her door off. She has yet to return home from school...DUM DUM DUMMMMM. :anxious: This could get uglier. [/QUOTE]
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