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Nope, she just doesn't stop....
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<blockquote data-quote="Farmwife" data-source="post: 387481" data-attributes="member: 8617"><p>Peel the band aid quick. You cave in now she will expect you to always cave. you have no reasonable or fair indication that she deserves saving. She still, as always, has the option to save herself by following some basic expectations. She isn't helpless or vulnerable she just makes bad bad bad choices, that isn't your fault or responsibility. </p><p> </p><p>Be prepared, when my difficult child gets to the point of his house of cards collapsing he gets extra super hostile. It's like an exorcism gone bad and the evil spirit does whatever it has within it's power to establish it's dominion over the situation. (dramatic, I know but these difficult child's flip the heck out when the old tactics stop working and they see they are losing control). </p><p> </p><p>So many boundaries have been allowed to be pushed by so many family members that she may actually be *gasp* surprised to find out that somewhere, eventually she has to be accountable for her actions. *double gasp* Up until now she continued to be saved by someone so she never had to come to terms with the mess she created. Time for a reality check, no?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Farmwife, post: 387481, member: 8617"] Peel the band aid quick. You cave in now she will expect you to always cave. you have no reasonable or fair indication that she deserves saving. She still, as always, has the option to save herself by following some basic expectations. She isn't helpless or vulnerable she just makes bad bad bad choices, that isn't your fault or responsibility. Be prepared, when my difficult child gets to the point of his house of cards collapsing he gets extra super hostile. It's like an exorcism gone bad and the evil spirit does whatever it has within it's power to establish it's dominion over the situation. (dramatic, I know but these difficult child's flip the heck out when the old tactics stop working and they see they are losing control). So many boundaries have been allowed to be pushed by so many family members that she may actually be *gasp* surprised to find out that somewhere, eventually she has to be accountable for her actions. *double gasp* Up until now she continued to be saved by someone so she never had to come to terms with the mess she created. Time for a reality check, no? [/QUOTE]
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