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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 637379" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>PG I remember so clearly when your difficult child was first pregnant and you were so torn on what she should do. A couple of us mentioned the options and asked if you were prepared to raise this child as your own and you thought long and hard and I know how painful it was for you but you decided you could. I understand the alternative was unacceptable. It was difficult for me at that time to even talk about your situation because I was in that same situation a couple years earlier. I had decided that I could not raise a baby at my age and told my daughter that. I do not regret my decision at all and my daughter has told me several times that she does not regret terminating the pregnancy because she now realizes it would have been disaster for her. </p><p></p><p>The only reason I tell you this is to remind you of the decison that you came to and hopefully bring some peace back into your world. You love that little guy like he is your own and if need be you will be there for him for years to come. Accept your decision and set down your boundaries for your difficult child to get a job and woman up to her responsibilities. She needs you, she cannot get up and leave because she has no place to go. Connor is lucky he has you and husband.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 637379, member: 59"] PG I remember so clearly when your difficult child was first pregnant and you were so torn on what she should do. A couple of us mentioned the options and asked if you were prepared to raise this child as your own and you thought long and hard and I know how painful it was for you but you decided you could. I understand the alternative was unacceptable. It was difficult for me at that time to even talk about your situation because I was in that same situation a couple years earlier. I had decided that I could not raise a baby at my age and told my daughter that. I do not regret my decision at all and my daughter has told me several times that she does not regret terminating the pregnancy because she now realizes it would have been disaster for her. The only reason I tell you this is to remind you of the decison that you came to and hopefully bring some peace back into your world. You love that little guy like he is your own and if need be you will be there for him for years to come. Accept your decision and set down your boundaries for your difficult child to get a job and woman up to her responsibilities. She needs you, she cannot get up and leave because she has no place to go. Connor is lucky he has you and husband. [/QUOTE]
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