Went with Tommy to neuropsychologist appointment last week. He believes it is Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD). He is now becoming our new psychiatric. Tommy had huge meltdown at school yesterday after having a good day on Monday. Suspended till Friday. Then school is instituting half days for him. We have IEP meeting on Fri morning. Will also be discussing SBS class in another school or partial hospitalization program. I am just so drained from all this. Can't stop crying. Tommy has a Boy Scout trip this Saturday and we told him he couldn't go if we had school problems. I don't even know if we should have said that because as per the last eight years, I have no idea what is under his control and what's not. husband wants him to go. Feels he dcannot control this stuff. I am as usual wondering where the hell all this stuff came from. I am killing myself wondering if all this came because we3 weren't strict enough or we got too angry at him when he was a defiant toddler. Just can't help it. Somebody recommended book called It's Nobodys Fault. Maybe I'll get it. It's so hard for me to believe that.