Now, mind you, I did not talk to difficult child the whole time I was away. She tried calling a couple of times, but I did not answer. I was taking a vacation from everything that is stressful, and that includes difficult child. However, I did check her FB and saw this post: "i got the job at waffle house in candler! ive decided to get clean. so i will be deleting the majority of the people on my Facebook so if your wondering why were not friends on here that's why... the way i have been living my life is not getting me anywhere and im making myself and the people i love miserable. im tiered of the dependencies issues ive been dealing with. no one owes me anything and to those of you who believe i take advantage of you im truely sorry i have not been more appreciative. what have i become my s weetest friend everyone e i know goes away in the end you could have my thoughts i will let you down and you could have it all if i" She posted last night that she had work again today at 9am and was looking for a ride there and offered gas money. Things could be looking up. I could tell from her posts that A Hole has not been in contact with her and I looked at her phone records and they have not been in contact at all. She posted that she loves him but maybe now, she can get her life on track. I pray that is true and I am praying she is finding her way, but I have not said anything to her (I have had my hopes up too many times only to have them dashed so this time, I will wait and see what happens). So I had a wonderful, albeit extremely busy vacation, and now back to reality!