aeroeng
Mom of Three
No fights, and difficult child in training did all his homework without complaint and seemed more confident in himself. difficult child behaved well for the most part, but was rude at times. I guess it takes small steps.
On Monday, at work one of the younger engineers came in with a swollen hand. He had dislocated it the night before and possibly had a broken bone. He quietly states he did not know what to do. He had lost his insurance card, never signed up for a primary Dr. and did not even know what company he had insurance through. He also did not know were the ERs were. I was thinking, "This is my easy child when he is in his early 20s." They must never grow up! We took care of the lad, found out his insurance information, and got him to urgent care. Good news it was not broken.
Yesterday I went out for pizza at lunch. The power when out and ours was the last meal cooked. We ate paid in cash and left. About one hour later the restaurant exploded. You can view it on U-tube, search for "explosion mall Maryland". Despite the fact that I was not hurt, difficult child in training was very upset this morning. He described how he would react if it had exploded with me in it. And by his description his behavior would have earned him an upgrade to difficult child. We talked about how sometimes things happen, but this time I was safe, and I expressed that it would be OK to be sad and angry, but I would hope he would always behave. Any additional ideas? After living with difficult child I would like to discourage any thinking about bad behavior
On Monday, at work one of the younger engineers came in with a swollen hand. He had dislocated it the night before and possibly had a broken bone. He quietly states he did not know what to do. He had lost his insurance card, never signed up for a primary Dr. and did not even know what company he had insurance through. He also did not know were the ERs were. I was thinking, "This is my easy child when he is in his early 20s." They must never grow up! We took care of the lad, found out his insurance information, and got him to urgent care. Good news it was not broken.
Yesterday I went out for pizza at lunch. The power when out and ours was the last meal cooked. We ate paid in cash and left. About one hour later the restaurant exploded. You can view it on U-tube, search for "explosion mall Maryland". Despite the fact that I was not hurt, difficult child in training was very upset this morning. He described how he would react if it had exploded with me in it. And by his description his behavior would have earned him an upgrade to difficult child. We talked about how sometimes things happen, but this time I was safe, and I expressed that it would be OK to be sad and angry, but I would hope he would always behave. Any additional ideas? After living with difficult child I would like to discourage any thinking about bad behavior