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not so fun night...
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<blockquote data-quote="Winnielg" data-source="post: 585554" data-attributes="member: 16059"><p>Oh GEEZ. I truly hate the circular arguing. I am much better at saying "I am disengaging from this conversation" and walking away. It used to bother me when he would amp it up and scream at me that I was ignoring him and I would feel the need to re-engage and say calmly "no, etc". Now I just keep walking and close my door. In the end it does not matter what I or husband say when he gets like that - unless he hears what he WANTS to hear it will never end. And he is not going to hear it. </p><p></p><p>My husband is and has always been better at it then me. He can pick out points of inconsistency in the argument and try to intelligently discuss something for awhile, but he is good at knowing when it turns and disengaging.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Winnielg, post: 585554, member: 16059"] Oh GEEZ. I truly hate the circular arguing. I am much better at saying "I am disengaging from this conversation" and walking away. It used to bother me when he would amp it up and scream at me that I was ignoring him and I would feel the need to re-engage and say calmly "no, etc". Now I just keep walking and close my door. In the end it does not matter what I or husband say when he gets like that - unless he hears what he WANTS to hear it will never end. And he is not going to hear it. My husband is and has always been better at it then me. He can pick out points of inconsistency in the argument and try to intelligently discuss something for awhile, but he is good at knowing when it turns and disengaging. [/QUOTE]
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