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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 331207" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I have known husband for almost 20 years. His folks' place has been a stye as long as I've known him. There are cars out there that are 40 years old, and they insist on keeping them to "store" things in, so I assume part of this is upbringing...yet, he recognizes how awful his folks' place looks. It embarrasses him (when easy child borrowed our vaccuum and friends were coming over, he even took the area rug outside and beat it!). He does not allow others into our house looking that way, even if it is a facade...so yes, part of it is that he doesn't know how...part of it is he doesn't seem to care to learn.</p><p> </p><p>And yes, he wants me to "play" more...yet getting him to do anything with just me is next to impossible. We used to ride horses all the time, just our little family. Its been probably 2 years since I've been able to get him on horseback without having a whole group going. He will take the buggy out, just us, as long as we go into town.</p><p> </p><p>So I pack up the kids and we just go riding or build a campfire or whatever on our own. And that doesn't help.</p><p> </p><p>You are right, tho...focusing on playing first might help. Ultimately, I want that back, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 331207, member: 1848"] I have known husband for almost 20 years. His folks' place has been a stye as long as I've known him. There are cars out there that are 40 years old, and they insist on keeping them to "store" things in, so I assume part of this is upbringing...yet, he recognizes how awful his folks' place looks. It embarrasses him (when easy child borrowed our vaccuum and friends were coming over, he even took the area rug outside and beat it!). He does not allow others into our house looking that way, even if it is a facade...so yes, part of it is that he doesn't know how...part of it is he doesn't seem to care to learn. And yes, he wants me to "play" more...yet getting him to do anything with just me is next to impossible. We used to ride horses all the time, just our little family. Its been probably 2 years since I've been able to get him on horseback without having a whole group going. He will take the buggy out, just us, as long as we go into town. So I pack up the kids and we just go riding or build a campfire or whatever on our own. And that doesn't help. You are right, tho...focusing on playing first might help. Ultimately, I want that back, too. [/QUOTE]
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