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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 337463" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>S, your post is bringing back those nightmares of Rob's high school career. By the time he was a junior he was at an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for a variety of other reasons besides school work. </p><p> </p><p>You asked if you could detach and still call the counselor to lay it on the line? I did. I talked to Rob's therapist weekly while he was at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I told her to lay everything on the line to Rob. It seemed to help him to not hear it from me. I also "used" that therapist to say a lot of things I'd said until I was blue in the face because he listened to her better than he listened to his father and me. I didn't care who he listened to as long as he listened.</p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry you are going through this. Rob backslid his senior year because he was moved to a group home and the therapist there had a different agenda from the previous one. </p><p> </p><p>Still...........it really is true that our kids only learn from natural consequences. It's a pity.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 337463, member: 29"] S, your post is bringing back those nightmares of Rob's high school career. By the time he was a junior he was at an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for a variety of other reasons besides school work. You asked if you could detach and still call the counselor to lay it on the line? I did. I talked to Rob's therapist weekly while he was at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I told her to lay everything on the line to Rob. It seemed to help him to not hear it from me. I also "used" that therapist to say a lot of things I'd said until I was blue in the face because he listened to her better than he listened to his father and me. I didn't care who he listened to as long as he listened. I'm sorry you are going through this. Rob backslid his senior year because he was moved to a group home and the therapist there had a different agenda from the previous one. Still...........it really is true that our kids only learn from natural consequences. It's a pity. Hugs, Suz [/QUOTE]
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