He is in jail for 10 days for kicking me and otherwise not following home rules. PO told me he'd be calling me to ask that I post bail but he is too stubborn/proud. In a way I am not surprised because he has avoided talking to me for months - what would he say if he called or had a visit with me if he refuses to speak to me? Still it is sad that he is in custody with no contact with family. Extended family wishes to visit him but he has to earn that privilege and hasn't been held long enough yet to get to that point. I am not allowed to call him. Have any of you had your difficult children refuse contact with you when removed from the home? If so, did they come around eventually?