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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 679436" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Copa...your words are heartbreaking. It resonates. I've experienced many similar thoughts.</p><p></p><p>I love what the above posters have said...you are not responsible for your adult son's behaviors/choices. You are responsible for yours. This is the only place you have true control. Perhaps you can think of a plan of sorts involving boundaries, but excessive thought tends to be unproductive. Love the idea of taking care of YOU. It's a double win, because you regain your health and there is some chance your son will observe this and learn from it.</p><p></p><p>You've indicated a need with various health concerns. And a willingness to take care of your health. Being creative, eating healthy foods...whatever that might look like...you surely should seriously consider doing it. It seems like you are moving in that direction.</p><p></p><p>Blessings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 679436, member: 4152"] Copa...your words are heartbreaking. It resonates. I've experienced many similar thoughts. I love what the above posters have said...you are not responsible for your adult son's behaviors/choices. You are responsible for yours. This is the only place you have true control. Perhaps you can think of a plan of sorts involving boundaries, but excessive thought tends to be unproductive. Love the idea of taking care of YOU. It's a double win, because you regain your health and there is some chance your son will observe this and learn from it. You've indicated a need with various health concerns. And a willingness to take care of your health. Being creative, eating healthy foods...whatever that might look like...you surely should seriously consider doing it. It seems like you are moving in that direction. Blessings. [/QUOTE]
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