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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 121088" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thank you, hugs are always a good thing.</p><p></p><p>i tried sitting down with my boyfriend tonight he asked me how i was feeling if i had to use the xanax today, we text thru day so he knew where i was at midpoint thru day.</p><p></p><p>i told him everything i was afraid to but i did. he said ok you need to go see a doctor, not your therapist she isn't doing anything for you, a pysch. i agreed. see tha'Tourette's Syndrome the thing i'm not dysfunctional tha'Tourette's Syndrome how i viewed depression to be. so we sat there talking about stuff for a while i made us tea. </p><p></p><p>the next thing iknow he opens up fridge to get out milk and says come here you gotta see this. i walk over and there's like 3 gallons of opened milk in fridge. totally ridiculous. so he was sort of joking but i got mad. he was like ok what doens't belong in there?? LOL........i looked at him and said ok tha'Tourette's Syndrome a little funny. then few min. pass we were discussing some of the issues we've been having here his favorite words idiot adn jerk and i told him that i do nto feel he should be calling kids that at any time. he said well i don't call them that i say your acting like a .......... i said it doens't matter its ridiculous to speak to them taht way. i right away drew line down middle and said don't speak to my kids that way.</p><p></p><p>i'm very touchy lately about alot of stuff i'm finding. then few minutes passed and he makes comment about the pizza box on table. he had brought home pizza night befoe so i could give it to kids tonihgt. so what is what i'm thinkin i just sat here telling you i think i'm depressed i could care less about hte stupid pizza box. and there it went on and on both of us arguing. him saying t's always about you i only said that i'd take the pizza box out in the morning otherwise it'l be there when iget home. so now i'm upset while he's snoring upstairs.</p><p></p><p>he also said why do my feelings not matter? why is it always well don't worry about it or nows not the right time. so i said to him i'm sitting here telling you all this stuff and your talking about milk cartons and pizza boxes. his response was well i have feelings also and i only madea comment why couldn't you let it go.</p><p></p><p>so i said i dont care how you feel about the pizza box i think your insane and walked outside to smoke. this is wht we do when we argue. some have said its' verbally abusive what he does to me or with me. yet where do you draw the line if two people are engaged in an argument? i was verbally abused towards end of my marriage he would call me names, rip me apart say horrible things. taht isn't what this is so what would make it that?? he did name call a few times in past though when he gets really upset. </p><p></p><p>jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 121088, member: 4514"] thank you, hugs are always a good thing. i tried sitting down with my boyfriend tonight he asked me how i was feeling if i had to use the xanax today, we text thru day so he knew where i was at midpoint thru day. i told him everything i was afraid to but i did. he said ok you need to go see a doctor, not your therapist she isn't doing anything for you, a pysch. i agreed. see tha'Tourette's Syndrome the thing i'm not dysfunctional tha'Tourette's Syndrome how i viewed depression to be. so we sat there talking about stuff for a while i made us tea. the next thing iknow he opens up fridge to get out milk and says come here you gotta see this. i walk over and there's like 3 gallons of opened milk in fridge. totally ridiculous. so he was sort of joking but i got mad. he was like ok what doens't belong in there?? LOL........i looked at him and said ok tha'Tourette's Syndrome a little funny. then few min. pass we were discussing some of the issues we've been having here his favorite words idiot adn jerk and i told him that i do nto feel he should be calling kids that at any time. he said well i don't call them that i say your acting like a .......... i said it doens't matter its ridiculous to speak to them taht way. i right away drew line down middle and said don't speak to my kids that way. i'm very touchy lately about alot of stuff i'm finding. then few minutes passed and he makes comment about the pizza box on table. he had brought home pizza night befoe so i could give it to kids tonihgt. so what is what i'm thinkin i just sat here telling you i think i'm depressed i could care less about hte stupid pizza box. and there it went on and on both of us arguing. him saying t's always about you i only said that i'd take the pizza box out in the morning otherwise it'l be there when iget home. so now i'm upset while he's snoring upstairs. he also said why do my feelings not matter? why is it always well don't worry about it or nows not the right time. so i said to him i'm sitting here telling you all this stuff and your talking about milk cartons and pizza boxes. his response was well i have feelings also and i only madea comment why couldn't you let it go. so i said i dont care how you feel about the pizza box i think your insane and walked outside to smoke. this is wht we do when we argue. some have said its' verbally abusive what he does to me or with me. yet where do you draw the line if two people are engaged in an argument? i was verbally abused towards end of my marriage he would call me names, rip me apart say horrible things. taht isn't what this is so what would make it that?? he did name call a few times in past though when he gets really upset. jen [/QUOTE]
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