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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 384775" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p>51 views and no replies because we care but don't have any better ideas on what to do. Detach from difficult child and detach from your mom's struggles. You told her what to expect, and I am sure you knew how it was going to go. You can not allow difficult child back into your home, and you can't control what your mom chooses to do or allow. Eventually difficult child will wear out her welcome with your mom, and will have to leave there as well. Then she is on her own. You can not take her back! You can not let her drag you down. And, she can not live any other way, at least until she decides that she want to. She may have to hit bottom before she chooses to change. She will probably have to destroy her relationship with your mom before your mother understands that she too needs to detach from difficult child, and let her fall. At that point you might try to pick up the pieces with mom as you know what she is going through. </p><p></p><p>It is a very difficult spot you are in. I wish I had better words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 384775, member: 6557"] 51 views and no replies because we care but don't have any better ideas on what to do. Detach from difficult child and detach from your mom's struggles. You told her what to expect, and I am sure you knew how it was going to go. You can not allow difficult child back into your home, and you can't control what your mom chooses to do or allow. Eventually difficult child will wear out her welcome with your mom, and will have to leave there as well. Then she is on her own. You can not take her back! You can not let her drag you down. And, she can not live any other way, at least until she decides that she want to. She may have to hit bottom before she chooses to change. She will probably have to destroy her relationship with your mom before your mother understands that she too needs to detach from difficult child, and let her fall. At that point you might try to pick up the pieces with mom as you know what she is going through. It is a very difficult spot you are in. I wish I had better words. [/QUOTE]
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