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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 561578" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Good morning JKF, I agree with everything CiV and pasajes told you. We take a step in this detachment process, we gain ground and then we find out something they did or didn't do and we get scared again. Then we take another step and gain ground, and the same thing happens. I think we do that until we run through all our fears and then we stop. </p><p></p><p>I would also operate under the assumption that no news is good news. You might utilize this time without his drama to enjoy your life, these are moments you can't get back, don't let him take them from you. Whatever happens you can deal with it then, but now, in this moment, life is good, he's presumably safe ...........and you have a whole Sunday to go have an adventure, have fun, laugh, enjoy yourself. Or you could spend it worrying about your difficult child...........the choice is always there.............stay right here in the present moment............(((HUGS)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 561578, member: 13542"] Good morning JKF, I agree with everything CiV and pasajes told you. We take a step in this detachment process, we gain ground and then we find out something they did or didn't do and we get scared again. Then we take another step and gain ground, and the same thing happens. I think we do that until we run through all our fears and then we stop. I would also operate under the assumption that no news is good news. You might utilize this time without his drama to enjoy your life, these are moments you can't get back, don't let him take them from you. Whatever happens you can deal with it then, but now, in this moment, life is good, he's presumably safe ...........and you have a whole Sunday to go have an adventure, have fun, laugh, enjoy yourself. Or you could spend it worrying about your difficult child...........the choice is always there.............stay right here in the present moment............(((HUGS))))) [/QUOTE]
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