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(NPD) Adult Son and (NPD) Narcissitic Mother Living Together Father Wants Son Out
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<blockquote data-quote="EvenTheDogMovedOut" data-source="post: 714040" data-attributes="member: 20911"><p>I really do appreciate everyone's replies. Crayola13 really hits what I know inside. My mother and brother will have an explosion sooner or later. Mitigating it probably isn't possible. Thank you for hearing me and acknowledging the mentally unstable part. It doesn't really matter what the medical diagnosis is, I am looking to articulate that the situation is dire/mentally irrational (i.e., will probably have another violent episode) and that both my mother and brother are displaying deteriorating behavior. </p><p></p><p>Taking care of ourselves, going no contact are all important tools. I realize there will be a showdown for them probably involving violence. </p><p></p><p>I haven't seen my father in 6 months and plan to visit this week in a neutral location. He is working on his estate plan. Hence my post. </p><p></p><p>I hadn't thought too much about the situation the last couple months (YEA! NO CONTACT = HAPPINESS), but my brother wrote me a vile email this past week threatening me and my spouse. I blocked him on my phone a long while back and it was only one mail. The entire email was about that he would never forgive me if I didn't apologize to our mother. And how awful I have been. I can't determine if it's a cry for help wondering how I got out and he didn't or if he just wants to recycle drama. No Contact. </p><p></p><p>Both he and my mother relish emotionally abusing someone so I am far ahead of their maliciousness (NO CONTACT). I'm in a good place, seeking to help my dad navigate on facts and legal only. I can't save my brother or reconcile things with my mother and I'm okay with that. I do see a ticking time bomb. Hence again, no emotions with people like this. It is about logic and legal solutions only. </p><p></p><p>Maybe this forum is not the correct one for my question (it's logistics and legal, not emotional), however, if what is written here helps someone else, I'll leave it as it is. </p><p></p><p>For anyone dealing with NPD relatives, there are many good resources. The main thing is to be NO CONTACT or a Low Contact as possible. </p><p>Emotional abuse is abuse. You deserve peace. Understanding what NPD is and being no contact has given me peaceful nights and beautiful days. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for reading.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="EvenTheDogMovedOut, post: 714040, member: 20911"] I really do appreciate everyone's replies. Crayola13 really hits what I know inside. My mother and brother will have an explosion sooner or later. Mitigating it probably isn't possible. Thank you for hearing me and acknowledging the mentally unstable part. It doesn't really matter what the medical diagnosis is, I am looking to articulate that the situation is dire/mentally irrational (i.e., will probably have another violent episode) and that both my mother and brother are displaying deteriorating behavior. Taking care of ourselves, going no contact are all important tools. I realize there will be a showdown for them probably involving violence. I haven't seen my father in 6 months and plan to visit this week in a neutral location. He is working on his estate plan. Hence my post. I hadn't thought too much about the situation the last couple months (YEA! NO CONTACT = HAPPINESS), but my brother wrote me a vile email this past week threatening me and my spouse. I blocked him on my phone a long while back and it was only one mail. The entire email was about that he would never forgive me if I didn't apologize to our mother. And how awful I have been. I can't determine if it's a cry for help wondering how I got out and he didn't or if he just wants to recycle drama. No Contact. Both he and my mother relish emotionally abusing someone so I am far ahead of their maliciousness (NO CONTACT). I'm in a good place, seeking to help my dad navigate on facts and legal only. I can't save my brother or reconcile things with my mother and I'm okay with that. I do see a ticking time bomb. Hence again, no emotions with people like this. It is about logic and legal solutions only. Maybe this forum is not the correct one for my question (it's logistics and legal, not emotional), however, if what is written here helps someone else, I'll leave it as it is. For anyone dealing with NPD relatives, there are many good resources. The main thing is to be NO CONTACT or a Low Contact as possible. Emotional abuse is abuse. You deserve peace. Understanding what NPD is and being no contact has given me peaceful nights and beautiful days. Thanks for reading. [/QUOTE]
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