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Occupational Therapist (OT), struggling with family deceit (long)
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 594480" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>Being a daughter of a Aunt and Father who run a family business I can honestly say it has been difficult watching them fight. We have all had to chose sides at times and unfortunately people get hurt.</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion I would be tempted to call a family meeting and bring in all the proof of the financial theft. Let them know that out of respect for your brother and the family business you rectified the issue without placing blame. That you were more concerned with the business issue being fixed than with pointing fingers. However you feel that with the current issues and the previous theft that the brother in question should be removed from a position with any contact with money and employees. Possibly get him in a position as a buyer or representative for the business. Make sure all purchases are verified before hand and that all payments are handled by whomever currently pays the bills. Plus make him do/take all sales calls. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like by covering for him the first time around you basically gave him a free pass. I am sure he knows you did it and now he is going to do anything he wants because you will give him another free pass.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 594480, member: 15473"] Being a daughter of a Aunt and Father who run a family business I can honestly say it has been difficult watching them fight. We have all had to chose sides at times and unfortunately people get hurt. in my humble opinion I would be tempted to call a family meeting and bring in all the proof of the financial theft. Let them know that out of respect for your brother and the family business you rectified the issue without placing blame. That you were more concerned with the business issue being fixed than with pointing fingers. However you feel that with the current issues and the previous theft that the brother in question should be removed from a position with any contact with money and employees. Possibly get him in a position as a buyer or representative for the business. Make sure all purchases are verified before hand and that all payments are handled by whomever currently pays the bills. Plus make him do/take all sales calls. It sounds like by covering for him the first time around you basically gave him a free pass. I am sure he knows you did it and now he is going to do anything he wants because you will give him another free pass. [/QUOTE]
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