I'll start off by saying I don't really know what's going on. That said, Nichole walks in this evening with a guy. Not boyfriend. No Aubrey. So I ask where Aubrey is? She's with her Dad. Seems boyfriend refused to take Nichole to the movies even though she had free passes given to her by Travis. She tells me they fought. She decides she's going to the movies anyway. Then she introduces me to J. J is the brother to the abusive boyfriend of Nichole's best friend. (I think, I'm starting to get confused) If I'm right he's the guy I posted about before. The one who really likes Nichole. And has told her so. So I ask if boyfriend has a problem with her going to the movie with J. Nichole says he knows and doesn't care. But she's sick of boyfriend acting like an @ss. Well, he does seem to be doing that alot lately. At least from the one sided conversations I hear. I make no comment. So they're at the movies. I have sooooooo many problems with this. Okay, I've put the boy's family on the back burner. And I give him credit, he was polite and didn't act like he seriously wanted to crawl into his skin when Nichole introduced us. (like b/f did and J's brother does) Has no problem making eye contact. However...... I don't agree with Nichole going to the movies with another guy while she is still "with" boyfriend. There is just an absolute wrongness to that. I mean the guy has told her how he likes her, and Nichole has admitted to me that she like him the same way. So I'm doubting seriously this is just Friends going to the movies. easy child is POed and appalled Nichole did this. As she put it, even though we as a family aren't boyfriend's biggest fans, she shouldn't be disrespecting him by going to the movies with this other guy. easy child wants me to talk to her. I'm going to....about the guy and the movies part. But you know how with difficult children you get this tension building when you know something big has happened or is about to happen?? I'm getting some bad vibes from this. What the heck was in her head that she just left the baby with boyfriend to go to the movies with this other guy? She couldn't bring her home first?? Now I probably did something stupid. But I drove them to the movies. J doesn't have a car. They were going to walk the 4 miles. Uh, no. And I'm bringing them home. I don't like it, but I don't like her being alone with him either. Sorry, I think I've started rambling. I'm just so d@amned shocked at her behavior I don't know what to think.