I can't even do justice in words for everything that is going on. Ant..... he's not using but he's not working the program either. And he no longer wants to do Job Corp or anything else..... So, it's just a matter of time. Mom is so sick, but refuses to stay down because everything at her house just hit the fan: - We've got Grandma's stuff arriving any day and she is moving over 5,000 pounds of stuff to fit it into my Mom's already full house.... - Grandma has her full mind, but she's a difficult child! She thinks Mom should throw all her stuff out so grandma's stuff can be in the house. -Grandma thinks that until her depends are FULL, they don't need to be changed. It's a waste of money. And since she's got her full mind, I can't force her. Oh, but she bought rubber pants to wear so it's okay. -Grandma thinks I OWE it to her and Mom to quit my job, loss my house, etc...and take care of her. Why do I need to waste time anywhere else? Don't I know my place? -Grandpa, who has advance Parkinsons is suddenly doing so much better that he could lose his place at the nursing home and have to be moved in with mom and Dad. -Oh and Mom's EKG that they did at the hospital last night wasn't good so she has something else scheduled tomorrow morning. -husband and I spent the day trying to help...OMG!! we haven't figured out who has the worse headache. At least we were able to give my Dad a couple of hours alone so that he could get some of his work done. - I already had grandma hijack my perm tomorrow. While I'm processing, she's getting her hair done. I know my Mom's health will not survive my Grandma much less both of them. I know my Dad isn't doing any better. They already checked into assisted living - there isn't enough money for even a year. So, a lot of this is going to fall on my shoulders..... I'd run away but that would leave mom and dad alone to face everything. I've been hating my job for over a year now....I'm Looking Forward to going to work tomorrow!!