So Tink tells me today that I am not so nice. Certainly not as nice as Michelle (my X's current g/f) who told her that one day she "might" get her a cell phone. I just got through telling Tink that A-she is 7 and does not need a cell phone, and B-I do not have a job and cannot afford a cell phone for her. Evidently, Michelle mentioned possibly getting Tink a cell phone "someday" and in her mind that means that she is nicer than I am. Also, Michelle bought her a little makeup thing over the weekend. Tink pointed out that I don't buy her anything anymore. Trying not to show the obvious hurt I am feeling, I said " I suppose those Heely's just fell out of the sky" (I picked up off-brand heelys for 12.00 at Christmas and gave them to her on Valentines day). She responds that Michelle gets her stuff even if it is not a special day. So, I feel like either defending myself, by reminding her that I am unemployed, or ignoring her all night, and I feel like a freaking 12-year-old for wanting to do either. I got up from the couch to walk over to the computer and Tink asked if she was grounded from playing with me. I told her no, but I wasn't sure if I wanted to play with her. And NOW she is sorry. Trying to hug on me. It killed me, but I peeled her off of me and came into my room so I could type this. What should I do? I want to send her a message. I want her to learn a lesson.