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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 513077" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I work with a guy who had a son on probation over there and he said they were a lot better than the next jurisdiction his son ended up in- which wasn't the one I'm in but he said he knows there is as much difference as night in day from one to another. My boss told me that the jurisdiction I live in is known for having a corrupt government, but he didn't know anything about csu. I called the jurisdiction I'm thinking about moving to and they said PO would be required to transfer difficult child's case to them if I moved there. Even if they are as bad as far as policies (or lack thereof), the hx PO and I have that has left me so untrusting of him won't be there - IOW- there won't be any personal vendetta if we are starting fresh with someone new in a different jurisdiction. I definitely think this turned into a vendetta against me when they perceived my walking into a mtg with a written list of hx problems, questions, and ideas, because PO had led me to believe it was a mtg to get all concerns on the table but told everyone else is was to back him up or something...anyway, they perceived that as me trying to take over or sometehing but PO hadn't done anything except tell me difficult child would come home with no transition, services, etc, and we all know how well that worked for difficult child last time, I don't know, that's just when koi hit tthe fan and that was back in Oct. I think they first took the postition that "ok then, we'll show her, we'll put him in a long term GH" but when that didn't work, now they are going to bombard us with services yet have no measurable goals/criteria for actually stepping down given to us and if I buck, which they are banking on, recommend that difficult child never comes home because I won't cooperate. To me, it's more than obvious.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 513077, member: 3699"] I work with a guy who had a son on probation over there and he said they were a lot better than the next jurisdiction his son ended up in- which wasn't the one I'm in but he said he knows there is as much difference as night in day from one to another. My boss told me that the jurisdiction I live in is known for having a corrupt government, but he didn't know anything about csu. I called the jurisdiction I'm thinking about moving to and they said PO would be required to transfer difficult child's case to them if I moved there. Even if they are as bad as far as policies (or lack thereof), the hx PO and I have that has left me so untrusting of him won't be there - IOW- there won't be any personal vendetta if we are starting fresh with someone new in a different jurisdiction. I definitely think this turned into a vendetta against me when they perceived my walking into a mtg with a written list of hx problems, questions, and ideas, because PO had led me to believe it was a mtg to get all concerns on the table but told everyone else is was to back him up or something...anyway, they perceived that as me trying to take over or sometehing but PO hadn't done anything except tell me difficult child would come home with no transition, services, etc, and we all know how well that worked for difficult child last time, I don't know, that's just when koi hit tthe fan and that was back in Oct. I think they first took the postition that "ok then, we'll show her, we'll put him in a long term GH" but when that didn't work, now they are going to bombard us with services yet have no measurable goals/criteria for actually stepping down given to us and if I buck, which they are banking on, recommend that difficult child never comes home because I won't cooperate. To me, it's more than obvious. [/QUOTE]
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